Introduction xvi
How This Book Works 1
There Is No Right or Wrong Way…only Your Way 1
Release Those Unwanted Attitudes 1
This Book Simplifies Life 1
Cornerstones to This Book 2
When You Are Ready 2
The Adventure Is in Your Mind 4
Journal Your Journey 4
Who Are You Really? 5
You Are Your Own Personal Power 5
You Become Instantly More Loving 7
Everyone is Free 7
So Where’s the Proof? 7
Past Lives and Your Body 9
Your Soul Tells You What to Do 11
Mastering Your Body 11
When You Realize Who You Are 13
Section 1 -The Reason You Are On Earth 15
CHAPTER 1 – Loving Yourself Is Essential 17
How Important Do You Think You Are? 17
When You Put Yourself First, You’ll Love Others 18
Love is Irresistible and it is Free 20
You’re Always Worth it 20
So You’re Not Perfect 21
The Blessings of Your Past 21
CHAPTER 2 – Getting To What You Want and Beyond 25
New Knowledge Builds Your Acceptance to Get What You Want 25
New Experiences Keep You Growing 26
It’s Scientific: New Knowledge + Experience = Happiness 26
Only Do What You Love 27
Creating… Gets You What You Want 28
Knowing the Truth… Gets You What You Want 28
Wisdom… Gets You What You Want 30
Now Is All There Ever Is…Dive into What You Want Now 32
Section 2 – You Are Responsible for Your Life 37
CHAPTER 3 – Whatever You Think Is True 38
The Downsides of Survival Mode 39
Where Your Thoughts Come From 39
The Thoughts You Choose Your Life 40
New Knowledge is Your Launch Pad 41
More Scientific Proof of the Power of Your Thought 41
Anything You Want is Already There for You 43
The Easiest Way to Break Free From Your Captivity 43
CHAPTER 4 – You Are Creating Your Life Right Now 47
You Are Choosing Your Life In Every Moment 47
It’s Easy to Accept Responsibility When You’re Having Fun 48
Facing Responsibility is The Key to Your Power 48
Building Pathways in Your Brain 51
Every Thought is a Choice You Are Making – Make it Count 51
CHAPTER 5 – Challenges are Powerful Opportunities for You 55
Challenges as an Asset 55
Adversity Will Get Your Attention 56
Reduce the Heat by Using Your Feedback 57
Never Put Up With Something That Makes You Unhappy 58
Growing Through Joy 58
Just When You Thought You Had It All Worked Out 59
Your Very Own Special Challenges 59
Compassion 60
Your Fork in the Road 60
CHAPTER 6 – Everyone Is Your Teacher – Everyone Is Your ‘Mirror’ 63
Is That Really Me? 63
People Behave According to What You Think 64
Catching Your Reflection 65
Let Go of Others and Simply Focus On You 66
One Fine Day Your Reflection Reveals Your Harmony 66
You Free Yourself When You Stop Waiting For
Others to Behave 67
CHAPTER 7 – Effectively Communicating With Others 69
My Reality Is Not Your Reality 69
The Elegance of Your Delivery 70
Communicate With Clarity By Understanding Others 70
The Most Flexible Person Achieves Their Goal 71
Attracting Easy Communication 71
CHAPTER 8 – Lose The Victim Mentality 74
Most People Indulge 74
Disguised Through Illness 75
Needing Protection Is Not an Asset 76
Expecting Others to Take Care of Us 76
The Addictive Cycle 77
Acknowledge and Release It 77
Being an Asset to Yourself 78
Section 3 – Paving the Way to What You Want 87
CHAPTER 9 – Living in Other People’s Shadows 89
Say, ‘No Thanks’ 89
Giving With No Strings Attached 90
Stand Tall – Let Yourself Shine 91
CHAPTER 10 – Set Yourself Free From Obligation 94
Obligation Obstructs You From Getting
What You Want 94
No Fun? It’s Obligation 94
Respecting Your Own Feelings Benefits Others 95
Feeling the Pressure to Please Others 95
Setting Boundaries for Requests 96
Harmony for You Means Harmony for All 97
Step Lightly Be Gentle 97
One Day at a Time and You Get There 98
You Will Always Help… on Your Terms 98
Like Magic 99
CHAPTER 11 – Choosing an Unlimited Viewpoint For Your Life 103
Add to Your Choices 103
Avoid Premature Conclusions 104
Beware the Common Ailment – Dare to Challenge It 104
Alternatives Are Available and Miracles Do Happen 105
Accept Only Your Ideal Future 105
CHAPTER 12 – Making Your Own Decisions 108
Research is Always Valuable 108
Risk a Mistake – There is No ‘Wrong’ Decision 109
Be Brave and Jump In 110
Simply… is the Best 110
Only You Know Your Answer 111
CHAPTER 13 – Friendships – Helping You or Holding You Back? 115
Putting Yourself Down Does Hurt You 115
The Purpose of Friendships 116
Move on Once a Friendship is Over – Some Do End 116
CHAPTER 14 – Managing Your Emotions 119
Going Round in Circles 119
Release the Emotion in the Moment 120
A Little Effort Produces a Rich Return 121
CHAPTER 15 – Releasing the Fear of Change 124
Moving On From the Status Quo 124
Just Do It 125
Knowledge Gives You Confidence 125
Every Step Brings You More Freedom 126
CHAPTER 16 – Gratitude 128
The Beauty Is in the Detail 128
Gratitude Constantly Adds to Your Life 129
Gratitude Has No Boundaries 130
Giving Thanks to Others 130
When the Going Gets Tough, use Gratitude 130
Harmony Is Hypnotic, Remain Aware 130
Acknowledge Your Achievements 131
CHAPTER 17 – Abundance 135
Financial Wealth Isn’t Necessarily Abundance 135
There Is Plenty for Everyone 136
What Is Behind the Money 136
The Power of an Attitude of Abundance 137
Decide to Have Enough for Whatever You Want 138
Your Fulfilment Grants You True Abundance 138
CHAPTER 18 – Happy Mind, Healthy Body 142
Your Body Is Proof of What You Are Thinking 142
Empower Your Mind 143
Health is Another Journey of Discovery 144
Anything Is Possible – Even Healing Yourself 144
Commitment Is All You Need to Achieve Health 145
Cultivate Your Acceptance, Educate Yourself 146
Healing Yourself Through Harmonious Healthcare 146
Wisdom Is Your Reward for Your Effort 147
Health = Power for You 147
You Choose the Best Option for You 147
Conscious Thought Takes You Higher 148
Section 4 – Living Your Dreams 151
CHAPTER 19 – Creating Your Dreams 152
My Experience – Creating My First Dream 152
You Can Have Anything You Want… but Be Clear 153
No Idea What You Want? 154
Big or Small…Just Make Sure You are Passionate About It 154
Create Your Dream Today and Tomorrow Dawns With Your Dream Already In Place 155
Celebrate…Allow Your Dream to Unfold 155
Every Powerful Thought You Have Gets You Closer 161
When You Need to Focus, Do it 161
Getting Out of Your Own Way 162
The World Benefits When You Follow Your Dreams 162
CHAPTER 20 – Creating Your Dream Career 164
Wake Up Happy 164
Earning Money Should Be Fun 165
When You’re Happy and Don’t Know It 165
When Convenience Edges Out Your Happiness 165
You Are Entitled to Be Happy in Your Job 166
Take the Easy Street to Your Dream Job 166
The World Needs Your Talent 166
Keep the Ball Rolling Toward Your Dream Job 167
Your Dream Job is Being Arranged for You 168
Ensure You Are Fairly Paid 168
Spreading Your Happiness Through Your Job 168
CHAPTER 21 – Letting Go of Control 172
Over-Controlling is a Scarcity Attitude 172
Letting Go is an Abundant Attitude 173
When Your Results Aren’t Obvious 173
Letting Go With People to Get the Best Outcome 174
Letting Go Opens Doors 174
Letting Go in Everyday Life 175
Letting Go Reveals a Greater Destiny 175
It is the Jewel in the Crown 176
CHAPTER 22 – Letting Go to Reflect or Create 178
CHAPTER 23 – Letting Go of Your Past 181
You Are Recycling Your Emotion 181
Your Past is an Emotional Addiction 181
You Can Change Your Past 182
Keep Only the Wisdom…Forget the Rest 182
CHAPTER 24 – Letting Go of Your Past to Transition to Your New Life 185
You Are Making Way for the New 185
Let Your Emotions Flow, Let Them Go 186
Ah…Finally You Have Clarity and Meaning 186
CHAPTER 25 – Letting Go by Being Honest 189
We Are Taught That Minor Indiscretions Are Okay 189
You Attract Back What You Think and Do 191
If in Doubt, Choose the Path of Higher Frequency 191
CHAPTER 26 – Patience 193
You Want it Now? 193
You and Your Life Are Being Prepared 194
But Don’t Put Your Life on Hold 194
Never Give Up 194
CHAPTER 27 – Laughing – It’s the Best 196
There is No Good or Bad, it Just ‘Is’ 196
Seek Laughter 197
Know When to Hold ’Em, Know When to Fold ’Em 197
CHAPTER 28 – Humility 200
We’re All Equal 200
What Does Success Mean Anyway? 201
Maintaining Modesty 201
Staying Focused and Grateful 202
True Power Is Never Advertised 202
Section 5 – Others in Your Life – Your Attitude Toward Them 204
CHAPTER 29 – The Power and Freedom of Love 206
Actively Encourage Love 206
Love Transforms and Multiplies 207
Love’s Challenges 208
You Are Rewarded When You Love 208
Enjoy the Reflection 209
CHAPTER 30 – Kindness and Acceptance 212
Kindness Comes from Unexpected Directions 212
Minding Your Own Business 213
Kindness and Acceptance is a Gift to Others 213
All People Smile in the Same Language 214
Your Gift Returns 214
CHAPTER 31 – Judging Others 216
Concentrate on Your Life 216
Idle Chatter Hurts You 217
We’re All Doing Our Best 218
Celebrate Your Differences 218
Every Situation Is Progress Toward Your Prize 219
Honesty Takes Courage 219
Anything Goes 219
CHAPTER 32 – Forgiveness 222
Shift the Power from Them to You 222
Avoid Getting Stuck in the Mud of Justice 223
Who Is Pulling Your Strings? 223
Nothing is as it Seems 224
Use it as a Precious Teaching For You 224
The Truth Is Painful but Living a Lie Is Worse 225
Break Free From Blame 226
You Experience a Beautiful Sense of Loving Yourself 228
Disputes Clear the Air 228
Avoid Playing ‘God’ in Other People’s Lives 229
Stop Allowing Others to Imprison You in Your Past 229
You Are Where You Need to Be 229
Work On One Situation at a Time 230
CHAPTER 33 – Saving Others from Their Challenges 234
Their Low Point 235
Allow Others to Make Their Journey 235
Achieving a Balance 235
Allow Others Their Freedom 236
Help by Thinking Only the Best Thoughts for Others 236
Perhaps it is Your Issue Too? 236
Be an Example to Others 237
CHAPTER 34 – Changing Others by Changing Yourself 239
Back to You 240
I’m Only Happy When You are Happy 240
When You Don’t Change You Hurt Yourself 240
You Be as Flexible as Possible 241
CHAPTER 35 – Children 245
Children Expect Mastery 245
Communication Matters…Again 246
Children Also Create Their Reality…And They Should Know This 246
Saving Our Children from Their Challenges 247
Children Can Also Have Goals 248
Celebrate Achievements 249
Limit the Media 249
Section 6 – The Gift of Every New Day 252
Be Clear about What You Want Every Day 252
Knowledge Is Power 252
Master Your Body Moment by Moment 253
More Than You Do Now? That’s Progress 253
Section 7 – Conclusion 262
It Is NOW up to YOU to Create MAGIC 262
You Will Always Have All the Support You Need 262
You Are the Powerhouse of Your Life 263
Now Is Always Now…Do It Now 263
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