Is Anything Really Possible?
Most of us have big dreams but at some point we compromise.
There’s NO limit to the power of your mind.
You’re an infinite being.
Let’s allow that to be a reminder because our culture has misled us into thinking some things are possible, some impossible.
Play It Safe and Survive — Is That Enough?
“You can play it safe, and I wouldn’t blame you for it.
You can continue as you’ve been doing, and you’ll survive,
but is that what you want? Is that enough?”
~~ J.M. Darhower
You’re an infinite being.
Your potential is infinite.
Why would you merely survive and crimp your infinite outrageous potential?
You Are The Way You Are For A Reason
Society tries to dictate who we ought to be, how we ought to look, what we wear, what we say and so on.
This causes us to aim to be like everyone else and fit in.
6 Easy Attitude Adjustments >>> Get Big Results!
Did you know ATTITUDE affects your entire life?
Did you know at the core of a great attitude is PERSPECTIVE?
Your perspective has a huge effect on your overall level of health, happiness and success.
Why?
What Do You Need Before You Can Love Someone?
It makes sense that you can’t give what you don’t already have, so really this applies to EVERYTHING in life.
Never WAIT for what you want…
Say YES to Being the STAR of Your Life!
“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players.” ~~ William Shakespeare
If that’s true, have you asked yourself the role you’re playing and who wrote your script?
How to Leave Behind Pain and Embrace Freedom
Challenges bring opportunities.
There’s no question about that.
There’s also no question it’s hard to “embrace” a challenge or problem by yelling, “Yay, an opportunity!”
The essence of who you are always wants freedom.
You’re always naturally seeking expansion, fuller expression – of who you truly are.
When you allow yourself to grow you’re at your happiest because your soul thrives on adventure.
But most of us shrink back because adventure means CHANGE!
Why do we fear change? …
Have You Been Gifted With Magical Powers?
Some people call big achievements magic, but all “miracles” are merely in line with the power of the mind and quantum physics, in fact all laws of the universe!
Isn’t that great? There is no mystery.
Magic: The power of apparently influencing events by using mysterious or supernatural forces (Oxford Dictionary).
We use the word “magic” as if it’s something unexplainable and beyond our ability…
Why… You’re Worth It!
Do you compare yourself to others?
Do you feel you’re not good enough, that no matter how hard you try you never quite measure up?
That’s you? Well, thank goodness for that!
You’re not perfect.
I’ve realized I wouldn’t want perfection because what then, would be the purpose of life?…
Discover the First Key Element to Getting What You Want
Deep down you’d like to get what you want. And so you should.
10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want
If you feel like you’re giving more of yourself than you’ve got, if it seems everyone else gets to have all the fun, read on.
How to Take Action to Get What You Want
You create your life and you’re responsible for the life you’re living now. If you don’t like it or want more from it, decide what you want and create it. Read on to find out how.
5 Reasons You’re Not Asking for What You Want
(Part 1) Many people prefer to fit into other people’s plans, rather than get what they truly want. They feel if they can create happiness for the other person, then they’ll find happiness too. This becomes an unfulfilling never-ending chase.
8 Ways You Will Change Your Life When You Ask For What You Want
(Part 2) …most of us have been trained to satisfy other people’s needs, to make a good impression – so much so that when an opportunity arrives for you to choose what you want, you forget to exercise that choice.
Why You Are Never Selfish
The reason the word ‘selfish’ exists: most people are not doing what they want to do. You’re entitled to live the life you were born to live, and so is everyone else. Why shouldn’t you be happy? Everyone should be happy.
How to Turn Boredom and Frustration into Happiness
How much of your life is about you? Postponing your dreams and goals to be done ‘one day’, will make you feel frustrated and depressed. So how do you resolve this? It’s really quite simple.
10 Quick Ways to Manage Your Time and Achieve More
Time is an illusion, you’ve heard that before and it’s true. How would you like to walk in the door tonight beaming from ear to ear? Triumphant, happy, calm, no stress.
10 Magic Reasons Living in the Moment Gets You What You Want
(Part 1) Get what you want by living in the moment. Living in the moment comes down simply to being ‘awake’ and aware of what you are thinking in the moment versus being ‘asleep’ or in a trance, as many of us are.
The 5 Hazards of Obsessing About the Past
(Part 2) One of your life purposes is to conquer the habit of living in the past. That’s if you want a happier life, a life where you get what you want.
How do You Know if You Are Living in the Past
(Part 3) If you live in the past, you don’t get what you want. When you are consciously present in the moment you get what you want. So, if you want to leave behind living in the past… read on to discover how.
The 6 Hazards of Waiting for a Different Future
(Part 4) We’re often told to stay away from the past. But did you know that it’s also futile to brood constantly about the future? Anything other than ‘in the moment’, ‘in the NOW’, is unproductive.
5 Common Ways You Block Your Goals
(Part 1) How do you free up your goals? You stop obsessing about HOW your dream will be created. Let it go, let it flow. It’s really that simple.
8 Steps to a Better and Faster Result by Doing Less
(Part 2) Do you micromanage your life? If so, you’re creating unnecessary tension, worry and you’re interfering with the outcome of your goals. Imagine instead relaxing and knowing only the best happens for you.
Are You Ready to be Well? Get Breakthrough Healing with Alternative Health Medicine
You decide your own health. Do you accept what your doctor tells you? Would you accept without question the diagnosis of a ‘terminal’ illness or even a common ailment such as eczema, asthma?
How to Find Purpose in Your Life
If you’ve ever wondered what your purpose is in life, you’ve come to the right place. An instant snapshot of your most important purposes in life is given in the extract below from my book How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!
Now You Can Eliminate Fear and Get What You Want
Fear is something every human deals with. You are not alone. The blessing is that fear is about what could happen and not what is happening. When you start to understand how you create your life, fear drops away. When you learn how to deliberately create what you want in your life, fear drops away even further.
An Easy Way to Have a Healthy Relationship
You’re entitled to love in your life, lots of it. Did you know that you control the amount of love that comes into your life? It is you who decides to allow more love or to turn it away. All circumstances depend on you – in finding a new relationship as well as in how healthy it is. You are the key to everything in your life.
How to Be Happy and Love Your Life
Simple answer: Keep evolving. The more expansive your mind, the happier you are.
Do You Think For Yourself? Here’s How to Start
Are you free to do what you want? Do you do what is expected of you? You’ll probably find that without even knowing it, you follow ‘the rules’ and conform. Obviously if you’re paid to do a job, do it. For this purpose we’re talking about mindlessly following the unwritten rules of society; things you’ve never agreed to and you’re not paid to do.
Why it’s a Trap For You to Tow the Line
If you want to live a happy life, stop towing the line.
Are You Stuck in a Rut? Get the Confidence and Life You Want
Do you want to have fun, confidence and purpose in your life? People do stagnate. The question is: Would you even know if it’s happened to you?
A Simple Way to Get Even More Than You Want
When you decide you really want something, it seems impossible to let go of the idea. Yet loosening up and doing exactly that can fast track you to not only what you want, but to getting even more.
How to Stop Criticism… Going Out and Coming In
Ever wished you could stop criticizing others? And wondered why you do it? And of course on the flip side, we all love receiving a compliment. Read on for an interesting way to accept others… and attract praise.
Why Acquiring Knowledge Gives You Confidence and a Happier Life
A strong spiritual ‘muscle’ makes it easier for you to have a happy life. Your spiritual muscle turns life’s confusions into clarity, and the darkness into light. And once you have clarity and light, you have greater confidence; something you’ll always keep.
Why Mainstream Thinking Gives You Mainstream Results
Many people believe the masses are correct i.e. mainstream thinking. “If everyone is doing it, it must be okay.” Wrong. Mainstream thought is filled with potholes. It is mostly the media, the government and our friends who tell us what to think. We no longer think for ourselves and that should trouble us. Does this mean many people have become robotic? Do you hang out with the latest topic of the media? It’s likely all our beliefs are being manipulated. What about you? What do you think?
Are You Free?
‘The future belongs to the free’, was the headline from The Australian newspaper last week.
An intriguing headline. Most would presume then that the future belongs to them. Not so. Most of us are not free.
Finding Times Tough? How to Take Charge Today and Get a Happy Life (Part 1 of 7)
What if tough times were a blessing? No way! Oh yes, they certainly can be. Okay, at worst a mixed blessing, but again it’s about ‘what you think you get‘.
Finding Times Tough? Can You Make This Simple Choice to Get The Life You Want (Part 2 of 7)
If you were able to choose and get the life you want, would you do it? Surprisingly, many people would rather do nothing and continue to complain. But we’re talking about you here, so if you’d like to choose your life, all you need as a first step is to…
Finding Times Tough? 2 Easy and Effective Steps to Start Your Happy Life (Part 3 of 7)
Only two easy steps to start your happy life? That’s correct: they help you imagine your fabulous future, they’re effective and the mere act of doing them starts to change your life and give you more of what you want.
Finding Times Tough? Take Action Today to Get Your Happy Life (Part 4 of 7)
“Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all.” Norman Vincent Peale
Finding Times Tough? Make This Easy Change Today to Get Your Happy Life (Part 5 of 7)
You can get big results from small changes. Here’s another simple effective tip to bring about change in your life and to bring in your dream even faster.
Finding Times Tough? Re-build Confidence in Yourself Today and Get What You Want (Part 6 of 7)
In tough times your confidence may get a little shaky. But be assured this is only temporary because confidence is directly controlled by your thoughts. By giving yourself appropriate thoughts and a new perspective you’ll quickly re-build your confidence.
Finding Times Tough? Do You Destroy What You Want When it Arrives? (Part 7 of 7)
This story is surprisingly common. The day arrives and you get what you want. Do you celebrate and accept it? Or are you suspicious of it, do you shake your head in disbelief? Most people question and doubt the outcome. How about that!
Has Your Pursuit of the Material Been at the Expense of Happiness?
It’s hard to imagine being happy with less ‘stuff’. But that’s exactly what Kevin McCloud so elegantly demonstrates in his very entertaining DVD ‘Slumming It’. Happy in a Slum? The people of Dharavi are happy. What does this mean for those of us who don’t live in slums and yet still struggle to find happiness?
7 Things Happy People Do – They Have an Open Mind (Part1 of 7)
We’re talking about YOU today, as we always do – because your happiness doesn’t come from others, it comes from YOU. What are the things happy people do? They’re getting what they want, so exactly what do they do? And how can you do it too?
7 Things Happy People Do – They Love to Learn (Part 2 of 7)
We seldom associate the word “learning” with “happiness”. Yet learning is a fundamental key to being happy. If by chance you equate learning with boring then you’ve probably never sought to learn about that which interests you. As children we were forced into learning what others decided for us. Not so now.
7 Things Happy People Do – They Put Themselves First (Part 3 of 7)
Put yourself first. I know I know that’s supposed to be taboo. And therefore a great reason to challenge it. Putting yourself first is logical when you know why. And if you want scientific proof then I have that too. If however that idea sounds tempting then I say, good for you.
7 Things Happy People Do – They Approve of Themselves (Part 4 of 7)
Want an ideal way to love yourself more? Then… Approve of yourself! What does it mean to approve of yourself?
7 Things Happy People Do – They Take Action (Part 5 of 7)
That new information you learned? Take action with it! But, how do you take action?
7 Things Happy People Do – They Create in Their Own Unique Way (Part 6 of 7)
Let’s stop. All this nonsense of trying to be like everyone else. Trying to fit in, be seen as successful – other people’s opinions of success. Advertising and the media hypnotize us into wanting to look like someone else, do what the famous are doing, wearing their clothes, their hairstyle… Discover what is unique about you.
7 Things Happy People Do – They Are Grateful For What They’ve Got (Part 7 of 7)
If gratitude makes you yawn then come with me… If you want to get excited about life, gratitude is your key. Let’s go deeper.
How to Overcome the Distractions of the Digital Age to Achieve Your Goals
Sleep more… and get your job done faster? What one or two simple things can you change today to get more done?
Puts Your Weight-Control of Auto-Pilot so You Can Just Relax
Join me on my recent personal breakthrough to maintain my ideal weight. I am super excited about this… What if you could stop watching the scales? Do you watch what you eat – but the slide seems inevitable? To your horror your attempts are failing and you’re becoming even heavier and more sluggish.
Are Other People’s Dreams More Important Than Yours?
Why it helps everyone when you ditch obligation. If you’re frustrated or bored, you’re probably doing obligation and it means you have chosen to put other people’s lives ahead of your own, and it’s not admirable. Change this or kiss goodbye to your goals and dreams because your focus is on helping other people achieve their dreams.
How to Use Problems to Get What You Want
Start by calling your issue a ‘challenge’ rather than a ‘problem’. You’ll immediately leave behind anxiety and suffering, and find yourself feeling reassured. Perhaps even feeling stimulated and on a new adventure. Read on to learn how to turn challenges into getting what you want.
An Easy Way to Discover Your Hidden Talents & Make Your Life Meaningful
We choose our lives – like it or not. You’ll “like it” once you know the reason. It means you always have choice. As much choice as you want. Can you have a job you love? YES. How?
Family Disputes: Tips to Laugh More, Cry Less (Part 1 of 3)
6 empowering things you ought to know about disputes. We’ll shift the power from the other person to you and possibly even see the brighter side. We all know disputes are a touchy subject and the truth is hard to hear. Be open to hear it and you’ll find more reasons to laugh at life.
3 Things You’re Doing to Let Others Control You (Part 2 of 3)
A huge part of disputes is how much you unwittingly let others control you. You can take back control by doing one thing instead; something we’ll get to in a minute. And you’ll find one of the essentials to a happy life also pops up again. Do these and life kicks along nicely. But first it’s important to know what you may inadvertently be doing now, to let others control you.
7 Steps to Turning a Dispute into What You Want (Part 3 of 3)
Our primary purposes on Earth? To be happy and have exciting new experiences. The best way to achieve that is to keep growing, evolving. Enter relationships! They are one of the main ways we grow. Especially of course when they’re challenging us. The point being: A challenging relationship is not a “problem”, it can be AN ASSET.
Could You Get Away with Only Doing What You Love?
The phrase “do what you love and the money will follow” is well-known, but is it truly realistic for most people?
Listen now to Janet Poole who says YES. Happiness Expert and author of the award-winning book HOW TO GET ANYTHING YOU WANT – JUST LIKE THAT! on HealthyLife.net talking to Tracy O’Brien of ProsperNow.me. (57 minutes)
Your Playing Small Does not Serve the World
It’s true: The best gifts are often free. With the holiday season upon us, I wanted to share with you one of the most moving passages I’ve ever read.
It reappeared in front of me recently as a wonderful surprise when I discovered an inspiring letter from days gone by…
Stop Allowing Current Circumstances to Dictate Your Results
Listen to Janet talk with Kerry Lutz (Financial Survival Network) about:
- 3 Things you can start DOING TODAY to turn your life around
- The next vital step whenever you learn something new
- How to know your purpose in life
- What is the criteria for a magnificent goal or purpose
- Why it’s essential to have a purpose you’re passionate about
Not Achieving Your Goal? Check out these 5 Life-Changing Reasons (Reason #1)
Reason #1 – If your goal isn’t worthwhile, it may not be worth the effort…
Not Achieving Your Goal? 4 Simple Steps to Free You From Old Habits (Reasons #2)
What Do You See in the Mirror? Is This the Reason You’re Not Achieving Your Goal? (Reasons #3 & 4)
Are You Brave Enough to Use the Power of Your Mind? (Reason #5)
Your mind is the most powerful and creative tool known to man. What I say in my book is that quantum physicists have discovered you control energy and turn it into matter. YOU DECIDE what matter it will become — you do that with your thoughts. You do choose your reality. How awesome.
But, are you brave enough to go for what you truly want? Most people are not…
Dream Big!
Pleasing others makes for a meaningless life. (excerpt of article by Janet on LifeByMe.com) American existential psychologist and author Rollo May said, “The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity.”
Are You Brave Enough to Go For What You Truly Want? (interview)
Janet returns to the Financial Survival Network with Kerry Lutz. In his introduction to this question Kerry says, “If the answer is ‘no’, you’ve got some soul searching to do!”
Learn the following today:
- 3 Reasons you may be too afraid to pursue your true life’s ambitions (you’ll love being free)
- The personal pain people create when they delay their dreams (so go for yours!)
- Is this the major – yet little known – reason you’re not achieving your goal?
- What is the main purpose of a goal? (it’s not what you think : )
- Your results reflect exactly what you think you’re worth. It all depends on your self-image so let’s improve it!
Are You Searching for a Heart of Gold?
Look inside. You’ll always find your heart of gold IN YOU first.
“May your heart always be joyful. May your song always be sung.” ~~ Bob Dylan
Do you secretly sense something is missing? Perhaps you want to shine, be extraordinary and authentically YOU.
The Reasons People Struggle to Achieve Their Goals
Janet Poole was interviewed by Bill Leff from Radio 720 WGN – The Voice of Chicago.
Listen now to Janet Poole’s interview with Bill Leff
Here’s some of what we talked about:
♦ What was it that happened in childhood, which meant by the time you were 8 years old you were probably already doubting and limiting what you can achieve?
♦ Instead of living “outside the box”, has your box just got smaller – and are you still inside?
♦ Loving yourself FIRST and why it’s essential to a fulfilled and happy life – for you and everyone else!
… and more : )
What Does it Mean When a Person Says, “Something is Missing in My Life”?
We tend to complicate life, when it’s actually quite simple.
“Something is missing” means a few things (read on for those) but solving it starts with ONE thing…
We LOVE goals. We are goal seeking beings. To be truly happy and fulfilled, it’s important we have a goal.
We’ve lost touch with ourselves, we’ve forgotten what we need to make us happy – and keep us happy.
Without a goal, we are lost.
Without a goal we have no destination.
Without a goal, we feel empty and unfulfilled.
How Could Every Failure Be a Success?
We never “fail”… we’re just afraid we might.
(and who decides it’s “failure” because really and truly there’s no such thing : )
Even if you say you’ve failed I’d say, “Congratulations – you’re moving… many are stuck so far back in fear, they might never move! You’re already further ahead.”
7 DO’s and 3 DON’Ts – Ten Proven Success Activities to Get Anything You Want (Part 1)
“Happiness is a condition. It is not something that is achieved by pursuing it directly, but rather comes as a result of our engaging in purposeful activities.” ~~ Aristotle
DO the following every day and you’ll
DREAM BIGGER DREAMS,
ACHIEVE THEM and feel HAPPY too!
Interestingly, these are not hard to do or complicated. Enjoy.
7 DO’s and 3 DON’Ts – Ten Proven Success Activities to Get Anything You Want (Part 2)
Let’s get into Proven Success Activities 6 – 10.
In Part 1 of this two-part series we discussed proven success activities 1 – 5.
Ensure you DO ACTIVITY NUMBER ONE first, because only then will you be motivated to do the other activities.
In short, ACTIVITY is the most potent way to get anything you want.
“By THOUGHT, the thing you want is brought to you;
by ACTION you receive it.”
~~ Wallace D. Wattles
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