Deep down you’d like to get what you want. And so you should.
To help you get what you want, this is Part 1 of a 3-Part series – 3 Key Elements to Getting What You Want
2 Stumbling Blocks to Getting What You Want
1. You don’t think it’s you who makes it happen; you believe in luck or fate
2. You don’t think you’re entitled to get what you want
Move passed that way of thinking. Most of us have been programmed to think it’s ‘selfish’ to get what we want. Getting what we want forms images of someone’s spoilt brat jumping up and down at the supermarket saying, ‘I want it, I want it’, crying hysterically when the answer is, ‘No.’
Your Unique Dreams
But this is not about a childish need to always get what you want. This is about achieving your unique individual dreams – to even know what your dreams are, and to wake up each day assured of a great day ahead.
Do You Feel Entitled to Get What You Want?
Try this: Say to yourself, ‘I always get what I want.’
Now check your reaction. Was it easy to say, or are you squirming?
If you were able to say those words without guilt then good for you, because you have a head start to getting what you want. All you need now is to learn how life works to get what you truly want – how to be deliberate about it.
If you’re squirming about saying I get what I want, that’s okay. It’s important to know this about yourself. When you know who you are, you can change. And by change I mean you’re ready to help yourself accept that you can and are entitled to get what you want.
The First Vital Element to Getting What You Want: Knowledge
“Learning is like rowing upstream: not to advance is to drop back.”
Let’s clarify those two earlier points.
1. It is you who creates what you want and it isn’t luck
2. You are entitled to get what you want
What you need is to learn how to get what you want.
When a concept is new, start with an open mind and give yourself the opportunity to learn more about it. The more you learn about the concept the easier it is to accept it and apply it. Applying it ensures you fully understand its worth and meaning. These days knowledge is freely available. For the small amount you pay for information in a book, it is almost priceless.
Knowledge is vital. Take control of your life and actively search for information that takes you to how to get what you want. The book “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!“ is the result of 20 years’ research, it hands the recipe to you on a plate. The more knowledge you have in any area of your life, the more you accept it as possible. If you want to develop your golf swing, what do you do? You read about it, you go for lessons. If you want to become a better cook, you find cooking tips, different recipes. Learn something new to expand your mind, enhance your life. It’s that simple.
And it doesn’t stop there. To create lasting fulfillment it’s essential you keep on learning. The more you learn, the more you want to know. As you become greater and see results, you breakthrough to new levels of understanding. Even books you’ve read before will seem to offer new information. Why? Because you are now ready for it.
If the only message you get today is that it’s vital that you keep learning, then this article has done its job. Hold that thought.
Part 2 – 10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want
Part 3 – How to Take Action to Get What You Want
Do you want a no-nonsense formula for getting what you want and to enjoy a lifetime of happiness? Order “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!” to find out how. The book breaks with the traditions of today and reveals the hidden truth of ancient wisdom. You are precious, remarkable and worthy of having anything you want. Everyone is. The book also makes a great gift. Find out more about the book “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!”.
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This is Janet Poole; I believe there are better ways to delight your customers and inspire your staff.
I’m a certified Know Your WHY Facilitator and Coach and a Certified Facilitator of Bob Proctor’s Thinking into Results program.
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