Finding Times Tough? Do You Destroy What You Want When it Arrives? (Part 7 of 7)

Sunset Dec 2011This story is surprisingly common.

The day arrives and you get what you want.

Do you celebrate and accept it?

Or are you suspicious of it, do you shake your head in disbelief?

Most people question and doubt the outcome!

If you are someone who doubts, then catch yourself, stop it and just accept the good fortune that YOU created.

 “Circumstances – what circumstances? I make circumstances.”

~~ Napoleon Bonaparte (1769-1821)

This is Part 7 of a 7-Part Series “Are You Finding Times Tough?”

In parts 1 – 6, you learned

  • how to take charge of your life
  • the benefits of taking responsibility for your life
  • how to turn your life around
  • how to take action
  • an easy way to start letting go of your old life
  • how to act as if you already have the life you want

…to move yourself into a new exciting and happy life.

Don’t Question It – It’s Yours

Sometimes what we want arrives quite suddenly as if from nowhere, and it surprises us. Out of the blue we go from not having, to having. Perhaps it’s the suddenness that causes suspicion and bewilderment. We find ourselves saying things like, ‘Now that’s weird, how can this be happening?’

My advice is: When you get what you want, be very aware of your reaction. Don’t say, ‘I don’t believe it’ or ‘Okay yeah, but what about all my other problems’.

We do this even in everyday situations such as hearing nothing after a job interview but after calling the organization discover the job is yours. A few things don’t add up and you’re tempted to find fault with the process or become suspicious about what took place. Don’t, just allow it. Be thankful.

Instead you can ‘blame’ the following – i.e. that you:

– had a can-do attitude
(see part 1 How to Take Charge Today and Get a Happy Life)
– took responsibility for your life
(see part 2 Can You Make This Simple Choice to Get the Happy Life You Want?)
– decided what you wanted
(see part 3 2 Easy and Effective Steps to Start Your Happy Life)
– took action
(see part 4 Take Action Today to Get Your Happy Life)
– let go of the old to allow the new
(see part 5 Make This Easy Change Today to Get Your Happy Life)
– acted ‘as if’ or pretended you already had what you want
(see part 6 Rebuild Confidence in Yourself Today to Get What You Want)

It’s true – these changed your reality and you moved into a circumstance where you can truly do and have what you want.

If You Question What You’ve Received, it May Disappear

When you question, it means you doubt you can get what you want. This not only hampers your belief in your ability to get what you want now, but it also hampers your ability in the future… because what you think you create. If you think it’s impossible, it is.

Be aware of your thoughts because if:

a) You can’t believe it when it arrives

or

b) You think it’s impossible

– guess what, you’re right and you won’t get it. To learn how to become aware of your thoughts read my book “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!”

Instead Say ‘Thank You’… and Leave it At That

When you get what you want, congratulate yourself and move on. Acknowledge the moment and say something like:

‘If this wonderful thing can happen out of the blue then so can others, I’m ready to accept this and all great realities I create.’

Your new attitude will take you towards inspirational new people, ideas, opportunities, insights etc. That is the natural way of the quantum field. Your can-do attitude and confidence is also then boosted, making it easier to get what you want next time.

Man runs out of gas, buys lottery ticket — wins!

The little story below happened a while ago but is nevertheless an example of a little ‘miracle’ and how a challenge can turn into something wonderful.  And intriguingly (and happily!) these stories aren’t that unusual.

Allow all challenges to become opportunities – what have you got to lose?

And There You Have It – Your 7 Steps to YOUR Happy Life!

If you follow them – and doing it is the key – you will place yourself onto an exciting path of new opportunity. Let me know how much fun you have 🙂 !

So Remember…

If you’re keen get a happy life, don’t question it when it arrives; don’t judge it or reject it. Be aware enough in the moment to be grateful.

Situations and things often arrive ‘out of the blue’ – be ready and accept them.

To learn more about how to get what you want and enjoy a lifetime of happiness, order  “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!” online, on this page. You’re given the steps to take your life as it is now and turn it into what you want, and to reach your fabulous true potential. You’ll wake up inspired and enthusiastic every day. You are precious, remarkable and worthy of having anything you want.

Order your copy of “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!” from Amazon.com

Read Parts 1 – 6:

Part 1 Finding Times Tough? How to Take Charge Today and Get a Happy Life teaches you:
– How to take charge of your life
– A simple way to gain confidence

Part 2 Finding Times Tough? Can You Make This Simple Choice to Get the Happy Life You Want? explains:
– What taking responsibility for the state of your life means
– And what’s in it for you

Part 3 Finding Times Tough? 2 Easy and Effective Steps to Start Your Happy Life explains how to:
Find wisdom and gain confidence from tough times
– 2 steps that will start your happy life
– How to get a comprehensive 22-step recipe for your happy life

Part 4 Finding Times Tough? Take Action Today to Get Your Happy Life teaches:
The benefits of taking action
– How to take action

Part 5 Finding Times Tough? Make This Easy Change Today to Get Your Happy Life teaches:
– How even small changes can give you new direction and opportunity

Part 6 Finding Times Tough? Rebuild Confidence in Yourself Today to Get What You Want teaches:
– How pretending you already have what you want moves you into really having it

Further Reading:

What is the One Key to Confidence and a Happy Life?
How to Turn Boredom and Frustration into Happiness
The 6 Hazards of Waiting for a Different Future
10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want

A List of All Posts

See more about what the book “How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!” can do for you.

This is Janet Poole; I believe in finding better ways to live your life and grow your business.

I believe in sharing those ideas!

Better Ways. More Freedom.

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2 thoughts on “Finding Times Tough? Do You Destroy What You Want When it Arrives? (Part 7 of 7)

  1. Janet, what an inspiration you are! I first wanted to thank you for your kind words over on Thoughts on Theatre. After reading some of your writing, I wanted to also say what a wonderful outlook you have. It is so true that we create our own reality and you’ve illustrated that beautifully. I wish you a wonderful start to 2012 and hope to see you again in the future!

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