7 Unwanted Things When You’re NOT LIVING YOUR WHY

WHY-Logo-StackedI believe in exercising our FREE WILL.

We all have free will, yet most of us just toss this liberty aside because remember…

… having FREE WILL means you can choose NOT to have it.

“You enter the forest at the darkest point,
where there is no path.
Where there is a way or path,
it is someone else’s path.
You are not on your own path.
If you follow someone else’s way,
you are not going to realize your potential.”
~~ Joseph Campbell

If your life is about being what you think others want you to be and HOPING you’ll live up to their expectations, you’ll get:

1. Confusion
2. Self-doubt
3. Feeling lost
4. Sickness
5. Unhappiness
6. Misery
7. Feeling old

When put ourselves last we feel empty.

It’s not easy to decide to live for yourself.

We’ve spent most of our life trying to fit in and become what we’re not, but YOU WILL FEEL EUPHORIC when you dedicate your life to knowing who you are and living it.

Know thyself.

What you can do today is start at least opening to the idea of accepting yourself the way you are and doing what’s right for you.

Start expressing what matters to you; your true beliefs.

Your beliefs are going to be different to those of others and that’s what we want.

Expect your beliefs to grow and differ even more as you start expressing and living for the REAL YOU.

You’ll soon realise that being yourself is in fact letting go of everything you thought you “had to” be.

Each day you’ll become happier and lighter.

When you express what you believe and embrace your free will, you’ll get:

1. Loving relationships
2. A healthy body
3. Ideal customers who love you
4. Abundance
5. Vital energy
6. Certainty and direction
7. Confidence
8. Passion
9. Laughter
10. Fun
11. Optimism
12. Adventure
13. __(anything you want)____

How much of that do you have now?

Play all out being YOU.

Don’t waste another day living someone else’s life.

Related Reading:

10 Major Reasons WHY-Inspired Leaders Have Inspired EMPLOYEES (part 1)

10 Major Reasons WHY-Inspired Leaders Inspire Their CUSTOMERS (part 2)

Are Other People’s Dreams More Important Than Yours?

7 Things Happen When You Don’t Know Your WHY

Change Your Reason For Working

When You Know Your WHY…

This is Janet Poole; I believe there are better ways to delight your customers and inspire your staff.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

Knowing your WHY is like turning on the lights to your behaviour. You gain instant clarity. It’s like being introduced to yourself. When you know your WHY, you begin to understand. When you know your WHY, you realise your unique gifts. When you know your WHY, you gain clarity and confidence. When you know your WHY you live with passion.

When you know your WHY you can take your business from good to great in a single day.

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Why… You’re Worth It!


Do you compare yourself to others?

Do you feel you’re not good enough, that no matter how hard you try you never quite measure up?

That’s you? Well, thank goodness for that!

You’re not perfect.

I’ve realized I wouldn’t want perfection because what then, would be the purpose of life?

There’s no-one quite like you and fortunately there never will be…

…so how could you EVER compare yourself to anyone else?

BUT the beautiful little secret is…
…you can always become BETTER!

All humans naturally seek expansion and greater freedom. The adventure of life TRULY BEGINS when you allow yourself that.

“We are all living in cages with the doors wide open.” ~~ George Lucas

Remember your FREE WILL?

This means you can “BE” whoever you want to be.

Free will means there’s never any judgement. Imagine what you’d achieve if you never judged yourself!

This means you don’t have to WAIT until you’re perfect before becoming better (and oh boy does the human race love a good reason to “wait”).

Choose to move forward NOW.

Tell yourself, “I am worth it and I’m becoming an even BETTER version of ME!”

Let’s look at nature

If nature’s not evolving what’s it doing? You got it, it’s dying.

And that’s the same with us.

What’s another word for evolving?


Unless you’re creating, you’re disintegrating. You’re a natural-born creator who right now isn’t even close to your true potential.

You’re more powerful and magnificent than you can imagine

I love that I am not even close to perfection because it’s been such a blast evolving this far. Believe me, I wasn’t born loving myself!!!

I’m so grateful to have discovered the truth about life because now I’m loving the adventure and living my dream. The pace picks up each day and the opportunities continue to grow.

It’s awesome! Please allow yourself to join me!!!

Did you know DISSATISFACTION is in fact a powerful, creative state?

Agreed, always be grateful for what you have and who you are, but always strive to be even BETTER.

You’re starting to see a theme here I can tell : )

Have you noticed how the things you PROCRASTINATE about are those exact things that would directly benefit and enrich you?

Why the hesitancy? Because you don’t think you’re good enough or worthy of having something wonderful.

If you’re still making sure everyone else is happy before you say YES…

… if you aren’t doing what’s right for you first and foremost, then you haven’t yet understood the reasons for loving yourself first.

Why did I ensure the first chapter in my book was about loving yourself?

Because everything stems from whether you think you’re worth the investment or not.

Once you’re willing to see you’re NOT SELFISH by loving yourself first, you’ll more easily start taking action on your dreams.

“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.”  ~~ E.E. Cummings


You’ll stay younger and find things such as radiant health and being your ideal weight becoming a natural by-product.

Place the following sentence on your mirror and say it to yourself every day:

Say, “Listen here __(your name)__… you are precious, special and amazing… and I LOVE you.”

You’ll probably feel silly.

As ridiculous as it sounds it does take a little courage. Some people said they started crying when they said it.

I know you’re precious and I know you’re worth it!


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This is Janet Poole; I believe in finding better ways to live your life and grow your business.

I believe in sharing those ideas!

Better Ways. More Freedom.


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