7 Unwanted Things When You’re NOT LIVING YOUR WHY

WHY-Logo-StackedI believe in exercising our FREE WILL.

We all have free will, yet most of us just toss this liberty aside because remember…

… having FREE WILL means you can choose NOT to have it.

“You enter the forest at the darkest point,
where there is no path.
Where there is a way or path,
it is someone else’s path.
You are not on your own path.
If you follow someone else’s way,
you are not going to realize your potential.”
~~ Joseph Campbell

If your life is about being what you think others want you to be and HOPING you’ll live up to their expectations, you’ll get:

1. Confusion
2. Self-doubt
3. Feeling lost
4. Sickness
5. Unhappiness
6. Misery
7. Feeling old

When put ourselves last we feel empty.

It’s not easy to decide to live for yourself.

We’ve spent most of our life trying to fit in and become what we’re not, but YOU WILL FEEL EUPHORIC when you dedicate your life to knowing who you are and living it.

Know thyself.

What you can do today is start at least opening to the idea of accepting yourself the way you are and doing what’s right for you.

Start expressing what matters to you; your true beliefs.

Your beliefs are going to be different to those of others and that’s what we want.

Expect your beliefs to grow and differ even more as you start expressing and living for the REAL YOU.

You’ll soon realise that being yourself is in fact letting go of everything you thought you “had to” be.

Each day you’ll become happier and lighter.

When you express what you believe and embrace your free will, you’ll get:

1. Loving relationships
2. A healthy body
3. Ideal customers who love you
4. Abundance
5. Vital energy
6. Certainty and direction
7. Confidence
8. Passion
9. Laughter
10. Fun
11. Optimism
12. Adventure
13. __(anything you want)____

How much of that do you have now?

Play all out being YOU.

Don’t waste another day living someone else’s life.

Related Reading:

10 Major Reasons WHY-Inspired Leaders Have Inspired EMPLOYEES (part 1)

10 Major Reasons WHY-Inspired Leaders Inspire Their CUSTOMERS (part 2)

Are Other People’s Dreams More Important Than Yours?

7 Things Happen When You Don’t Know Your WHY

Change Your Reason For Working

When You Know Your WHY…

This is Janet Poole; I believe there are better ways to delight your customers and inspire your staff.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

Knowing your WHY is like turning on the lights to your behaviour. You gain instant clarity. It’s like being introduced to yourself. When you know your WHY, you begin to understand. When you know your WHY, you realise your unique gifts. When you know your WHY, you gain clarity and confidence. When you know your WHY you live with passion.

When you know your WHY you can take your business from good to great in a single day.

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Play It Safe and Survive — Is That Enough?

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DECIDE to follow your DREAMS

“You can play it safe, and I wouldn’t blame you for it.
You can continue as you’ve been doing, and you’ll survive, but is that what you want? Is that enough?”
~~ J.M. Darhower

You’re an infinite being.
Your potential is infinite.

Why would you merely survive and crimp your infinite outrageous potential?

Let’s put it this way, what would you be doing if you were guaranteed success in all that you do?

If that inspires you, then let’s do something magnificent, something that makes you live large and feel fabulous!

BUT understand this… you can’t get to your new destination by following an old path.

You’re going to be traveling some uncharted territory.
This will be new for you, right?
It’s going to be unfamiliar, so you’re going to probably feel uneasy.
Discomfort is part of the adventure.

Embrace it.

Most people run at the first sign of discomfort.
Embracing your discomfort is noble.
It means you’re a courageous pioneer – of your own life.

The first step if you want to do something new is to make a DECISION.

Nothing happens without a DECISION and a decision comes BEFORE the “HOW” shows up.

Most people wait their whole life for the RIGHT HOW and RIGHT TIME.

They never live their dream.
The RIGHT HOW and RIGHT TIME never come.

Do this instead:
When you have a dream or discover a new opportunity ask yourself a simple question, “Does this make me feel excited?”
If it’s a YES, that’s all you need.

DECIDE… right here, right now. “I am doing it.”

You may feel a little scared, and that’s a good sign because it means you’re moving into something new.
We THRIVE on new experiences.

Making decisions is scary when we first start but it’s the ONLY WAY to create your dream.
Nothing happens without a DECISION.

Your dream and that you have it is no coincidence; it’s vital you start moving into living it.

One of the reasons the world is filled with sadness and depression is because people suppress their dreams and crimp their potential; suppression is another reason for illness.

The way to be happy, healthy and young is to DECIDE to follow your dreams and continually evolve and grow.

The SAFEST thing you can do is move forward into what you want!

Survival is not impressive, it’s not safe… choose to THRIVE!!!

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Related Reading:

Are You Brave Enough to Use The Power of Your Mind?
5 Reasons You’re Not Asking For What You Want

This is Janet Poole and I believe in freedom and living our true potential.

I believe in finding better ways to live a better life.

I have searched the world to find the best ways to grow, get permanent change and achieve your wildest dreams — I have found it in the program Thinking Into Results.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

Contact Janet Poole here

 

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You Are The Way You Are For A Reason

SnoopySociety tries to dictate who we ought to be, how we ought to look, what we wear, what we say and so on.

This causes us to aim to be like everyone else and fit in.

There’s no doubt it takes courage to step out of the herd mentality and follow the beat of your own drum but really and truly…
everything else is a lie.

You may feel different to others, you may feel you’re not interesting enough, not good enough, you may feel no-one understands you.
You may feel
___(fill in the blank)__.

The truth is you don’t have to BE anything other than what you are.

You’re already wonderful!

What’s happening is that we naturally seek fuller expression of ourselves.

What’s beautiful about how you feel and the way you are right now, is that these things drive you into new directions so you express YOU more fully, have new experiences and do things you’ve never done before.

We’re always seeking to be better… we naturally seek MORE.

This is all perfect. Why?

Because your soul has a fundamental
desire to do things it’s never done before.
Your soul LOVES GROWTH
!

That’s the adventure of life!
The buzz… there’s nothing quite like it!

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud
was more painful than the risk
it took to blossom.”
~~ Anaïs Nin

Your soul is hungry for new experiences.
Your soul gains wisdom from new experiences.
That’s priceless because you carry wisdom into all eternity.
This is why doing something new FEELS SO GOOD!

You are the way you are for a reason.

Love the way you are because if you allow yourself to be you, you’ll naturally move into what’s right for you.

You’re happiest and most successful when you’re growing…
and especially when growing in ways ideal for YOU.

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Related Reading:

Finding Times Tough? Can You Make This Simple Choice to Get the Happy Life You Want? (Part 2 of 7)
Are You Searching for a Heart of Gold?

This is Janet Poole; I believe there are better ways to delight your customers and inspire your staff.

I’m a certified Know Your WHY Facilitator and Coach and a Certified Facilitator of Bob Proctor’s Thinking into Results program.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

 

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6 Easy Attitude Adjustments >>> Get Big Results!

ButterfliesDid you know ATTITUDE affects your entire life?

Did you know at the core of a great attitude is PERSPECTIVE?

Your perspective has a huge effect on your overall level of health, happiness and success.

Why?

Because all things can be viewed in several ways.

You can choose to see invitation or limitation!

“Your attitude, not your aptitude, will determine your altitude.” ~~Zig Ziglar

6 Tips to bring greater happiness and success into your life

1. Each day make a list of things you’re grateful for.

Gratitude is often overlooked because it somehow lacks pizzazz. I attribute much of my success and happiness to gratitude. Believe it or not, my challenging childhood actually helped my level of gratitude!

You can practice gratitude before you get up in the morning, in the shower, while driving or perhaps when you get into bed at night (my favourite time : )

Why does gratitude work?

Gratitude raises your VIBRATION and ultimately it’s your vibration that determines the RESULTS in your life.

If you’re in a low vibration, life is hard.
A HIGH vibration naturally moves you into the people, opportunities, circumstances you want i.e. the RESULTS you want.

2. Love life, not stuff.

Do you ever feel more possessions will make you happy?

What usually happens is after you acquire something, it doesn’t mean as much as you thought it would. The QUALITY of your life itself is what brings the most happiness, not your stuff.

However I often suggest going for “stuff” if that’s what you want because it’s important to have that experience.

There will come a time where you understand life is so much more than stuff.
Money is VERY handy but it DOES NOT necessarily bring happiness on its own.

What does bring happiness is what you’re DOING every day.
Are you excited about what you do?

If not, choose to find information that helps you live your passion.
Until you’re going for something meaningful to you, life will be meaningless.

I loved Kevin McCloud’s documentary called “Slumming It” because it reminded me and my family about what is important in life.
See my story here:
Has Your Pursuit of the Material Been At the Expense of Happiness?

3. Enjoy the journey.

Our society has trained us to be in a hurry and expect immediate gratification.

I show people how to create worthy goals and achieve them however I also teach that the underlying reason for every goal is… GROWTH.

While it’s fun to achieve goals, it’s the growth we get from the journey that gives TRUE satisfaction.

If you want to see a situation as an INVITATION, then you will.
If you want to see a situation as a LIMITATION, then you will.

“We find things where we look for them,
which is why I never look for a golf ball out of bounds.” ~~ Robert Brault

4. Believe in yourself.

Life is far more pleasant when you have faith in yourself. Remember: You’ve already achieved many amazing things in your life.

Even learning to walk meant falling over and getting up countless times, but you didn’t get annoyed with yourself.

How many times are you willing to fall down and get back up?
When you believe in yourself and expect success, you’re more likely to succeed.

5. It doesn’t have to be hard work.

Achieving something worthwhile DOES NOT necessarily need a lot of effort
(although action and persistence are required : )

I’ve discovered if you keep hitting obstacles on your mission, that’s a sign there’s a better way and all it takes is a few minutes to pause and reflect. There’s ALWAYS more than one way to get what you want : )

Read the book You2  by Price Pritchett to see why “trying harder” isn’t always the way through!
I’ve read that book many times!

Image - Change your Perspective6. There’s no such thing as failure.

Remember a basketball player who is unwilling to go for the goal will NEVER score.

People who succeed fail
A LOT!

I’ve used Go For No to help me become friends with the word “no” and beyond that see it as an asset.

Go For No will help you be willing to fall flat on your face and go on to WIN : )

If you’re willing to keep going, I assure you, you WILL build confidence. After all, much of the time we’re afraid to fail because of the fear of what others will think or say about us.

Failure and persistence make us immune to other people’s opinions and what a GREAT attitude that is : )
That kind of freedom is priceless.

One of the most powerful messages we can ever hear is…

YOU HAVE CHOICE.

You hold the key.

Choose your perspective.

Go for it!

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Related Reading:

Stop Allowing Current Circumstances to Dictate Your Results
7 Things Happy People Do – They Have an Open Mind (Part 1 of 7)
Finding Times Tough? Re-build Confidence in Yourself Today and Get What You Want (Part 6 of 7)

This is Janet Poole and I believe in freedom and living our true potential.

I believe in finding better ways to live a better life.

I have searched the world to find the BEST ways to grow, get PERMANENT change and achieve your WILDEST dreams — I have found it in the program Thinking Into Results.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

Contact Janet Poole here

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What Do You Need Before You Can Love Someone?

all-you-need-is-loveIt makes sense that you can’t give what you don’t already have, so really this applies to EVERYTHING in life.

Never WAIT for what you want.

Be the originator of everything you desire.

You’re a natural-born powerful creator so………. go for it!

If you’d like to have more LOVE in your life, then it’s time to start filling up with love.
How do you do that?
By being loving with YOU.

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
~~ Oscar Wilde

Unless you’re filling up with love for yourself, you can’t give love or share love unconditionally.
Until that time we love others conditionally, which means we expect something in return.

When you can love unconditionally you expect nothing,
YET YOU GET IT ALL!

Amazing!

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This is Janet Poole and I believe in freedom and living our true potential.

I believe in finding better ways to live a better life.

I have searched the world to find the best ways to grow, get permanent change and achieve your wildest dreams — I have found it in the program Thinking Into Results.

Better Ways. More Freedom.

Contact Janet Poole here

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