5 Reasons You’re Not Asking For What You Want

Do you follow your dreams?

Do you do what you want to do?

Or do you put everyone else’s needs first?

When you’re faced with a situation where you can choose what you’d like, be sure to exercise that choice.

Choose what you’d truly like, and not what you think other people want you to do.

Many people prefer to fit into other people’s plans, and not get what they truly want.

They feel if they can create happiness for the other person, then they’ll find happiness too.

This becomes an unfulfilling never-ending chase.

This happens in many people’s lives, even people who believe they are the ultimate decision-makers in their lives. We’ve been programmed since birth to do it.

This is Part 1 of a 2-Part Series – Always Say What You Want.

When You Sacrifice Yourself, You Don’t Help Others

While you probably want to create happiness for others and there is joy in that, but it’s not something you alone can do for another person – it is something we must each do for ourselves.

Others must do this for themselves, and you must do it for you.

In the same way, you can’t make someone sad, nor can they make you sad.
To fully understand that is why I wrote my book!

It’s not selfish to do what you want. Continue reading “5 Reasons You’re Not Asking For What You Want”

10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want

Rose - PinkIf you feel like you’re giving more of yourself than you’ve got, if it seems everyone else gets to have all the fun, read on.

You may be emotionally bankrupt and here’s how we fix that.

To help you get what you want, this is Part 2 of a 3-Part series – 3 Key Elements to Getting What You Want

In Part 1 – Discover the First Key Element to Getting What You Want, we learned

  • Many people don’t think it’s possible to get what they want
  • People don’t feel entitled to get what they want
  • The vital first step towards getting what you want

So let me explain the next element, which is…

The Second Vital Element to Getting What You Want: Love Yourself

“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”


Sounds easy enough.  But you say, ‘How is that related to getting what I want?’

A lot.

Firstly we need a brief introduction to another topic. Continue reading “10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want”