Self-improvement

If you feel like you’re giving more of yourself than you’ve got, if it seems everyone else gets to have all the fun, read on.

You may be emotionally bankrupt and here’s how we fix that.

To help you get what you want, this is Part 2 of a 3-Part series – 3 Key Elements to Getting What You Want

In Part 1 – Discover the First Key Element to Getting What You Want, we learned

Many people don’t think it’s possible to get what they want
People don’t feel entitled to get what they want
The vital first step towards getting what you want

So let me explain the next element, which is…

The Second Vital Element to Getting What You Want: Love Yourself

“You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

Buddha

Sounds easy enough. But you say, ‘How is that related to getting what I want?’

A lot.

Firstly we need a brief introduction to another topic. Continue reading “10 Reasons Loving Yourself Gets You What You Want” →

Deep down you’d like to get what you want. And so you should.

To help you get what you want, this is Part 1 of a 3-Part series – 3 Key Elements to Getting What You Want

2 Stumbling Blocks to Getting What You Want

1. You don’t think it’s you who makes it happen; you believe in luck or fate

2. You don’t think you’re entitled to get what you want

Move passed that way of thinking. Most of us have been programmed to think it’s ‘selfish’ to get what we want. Getting what we want forms images of someone’s spoilt brat jumping up and down at the supermarket saying, ‘I want it, I want it’, crying hysterically when the answer is, ‘No.’

Your Unique Dreams

But this is not about a childish need to always get what you want. This is about achieving your unique individual dreams – to even know what your dreams are, and to wake up each day assured of a great day ahead.