Is Your Troubled Relationship Making You Unwell? (Part 2)

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I believe a happy person is a healthy person.

Your entire life is interconnected.

In other words it’s no coincidence if you’re sick or diseased and at the same time in a bitter and twisted relationship with someone in your life.
(See Part 1 of “Troubled Relationships”)

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”
~~ Buddha

If you have feelings of…

  • blame
  • hate
  • revenge
  • anger
  • irritation
  • judgement

… please know they’re always felt by you, only YOU.

This means if you hate someone then you’re hating yourself; your own body BECOMES that hate.

Your thoughts and feelings always, always, always manifest in your body, only YOUR body.

If you hate someone you hate you, only YOU.

A little background.

1. Did you know feelings like BLAME, hate, revenge and anger feel so delicious because they flush addictive chemicals throughout your body?

It feels delicious but it’s creating devastation.

These chemicals are more addictive than any drug which is why after a few days you’ll need to create another argument to ensure more flushes of the “blame, hate, anger” chemicals.

You feel “good” after each hit because it’s the same as a drug hit, but the good feeling doesn’t last and you’re back to repeating the cycle for another hit.

2. Did you know when you BLAME or feel hate, revenge or anger, it goes into every cell of your body?

In an instant every cell becomes crippled.
You feel tense, rigid and stressed.

Day after day as you have these feelings, the cell becomes more crippled. It moves into a state of decline, starts SHUTTING DOWN and ages you.

If you ever say, “I am sick of them”, then you are.
Your cells only do as you tell them.

If you’re angry and inflexible in attitude, your body reflects that and it’s almost impossible to EVOLVE as a person if you’re rigid and stiff.

I’ll assume you’d rather not do this to your body so let’s do whatever we can to move you towards love even if you’re angry.

How do you move to a more loving feeling?

1. First make a DECISION.
All desired outcomes start with a decision.
DECIDE you’re going to evolve and become the best you can be.

2. You may be surprised, but I’m NOT going to suggest you suppress your feelings.
Why? Because society has taught us to suppress and that’s why it keeps coming back up.
We’ve been taught to be “nice”, to fit in and “behave”.
That’s not FREEDOM, that’s suppression; no wonder people are angry.

The way to WELLNESS is to FEEL the feeling but OBSERVE yourself with the feeling.
As if you’re a scientist observing an experiment.

BE AWARE of what’s happening; it’s the awareness that will move you into WELLNESS, letting it go and evolving.

3. You’ll need to re-commit to this decision every day.

4. Self-discipline will be needed because we’re all so addicted to those chemicals but YOU WILL BE REWARDED because you’ll start to feel more love and that love will always, always, always manifest in your body, only YOUR body.

If you love someone you love you, only YOU.

Don’t do this because THEY deserve it.
Do it because YOU deserve it.

LOVE is it’s own reward.
Allow your troubled relationship to teach you about LOVE OF YOURSELF.

I’ve had to do this in my life; I know it’s not easy but IT IS POSSIBLE if you’re willing.

“Only the powerful can show love,
especially during adversity or conflict.”
~~ Janet Poole – How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!

What if you’re not ready to do this now?

Well, you’ll be ready if you become more sick or feel low enough, and of course there’s always next lifetime.

Stop the blame, let go of judgement, introduce love and take responsibility in becoming the person you want to see in others.

Be merciful to that person who is driving you nuts because after all it’s you who receives the gift of mercy.

How much do you want your health?
Are you WILLING to no longer be sick?

P.S. Take another look at part 1 of this article.

P.P.S. You’ll find heaps of practical help on this topic in
How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That! Get the first 3 chapters free.

Reclaim the loving, healthy person you really are!

Chapter 5 “Challenges are Powerful Opportunities for You”
is where you’ll learn to see challenges as an asset

Chapter 29 “The Power and Freedom of Love” describes how
you’re rewarded when you’re willing to choose love during an altercation

Chapter 32 “Forgiveness”
Discover why there’s nothing to forgive in another person – ever.

Give yourself the gift of health and happiness.

It’s only YOU standing in the way of what you want.
Take control, go for it!

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Related Reading:

Your Troubled Relationship – Could This Be The Hidden Cause? (Part 1)

An Easy Way to Have a Healthy Relationship

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Same Soul, Many Bodies – Book Review

Title:        Same Soul, Many Bodies

Subtitle:  Discover the Healing Power of Future Lives Through Progression Therapy

Author:    Brian L. Weiss, M.D.

Rating:    Excellent

How clues from past lives provide alternative healing and a happy life today

The book Same Soul, Many Bodies – Discover the Healing Power of Future Lives Through Progression Therapy shows how looking at past lives through regression therapy can heal illnesses, emotional and physical pain and relationship issues in your life today.

Although the subtitle of this book suggests ‘future lives’, the book also extensively covers past life case studies.

The reader can learn much about themselves from reading the book without actually having the therapy itself.

The case studies are well written stories and cover a plethora of ailments and issues common to many people.

The beauty of this book is that it opens up the reader to consider new potentials to have a happy life.

One of the most impressive case studies involves a young woman, Victoria, with severe back pain caused by a cancer.

Prior to therapy, she needed morphine-like drugs to sleep at night and had to endure unbearable agony each day so as to work. A regression to a particular past life not only explained Continue reading “Same Soul, Many Bodies – Book Review”

Are You Ready to Be Well? Get Breakthrough Healing with Alternative Health Medicine

You decide your own health. Do you accept what your doctor tells you? Would you accept without question the diagnosis of a ‘terminal’ illness or even a common ailment such as eczema, asthma?

Would you rather turn your back on illness and bounce into radiant health? If so, there’s good news. Alternative health medicine gives you choice. Every day there are more major breakthroughs in alternative health medicine. If you have an open mind, you give yourself a gift of greater possibilities and solutions… there are numerous compelling alternatives if you’re willing to look.

To give you an insight to what is already possible, even for those supposedly ‘impossible’ diseases see an extract below from my book Just Like That ! How to Get Anything You Want[i]

“Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it.  I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down.”

Charles F. Kettering

(American engineer and inventor of the electric starter motor, who held

140 patents and owned the company Delco, later sold to General Motors,1876–1958)

   Anything Is Possible – Even Healing Yourself

For some, the illness may be genetic, but contrary to popular opinion, these illnesses can also be healed through our thoughts. The label ‘genetic’ can seem huge and insurmountable, but do yourself a favour and imagine the disease as small and insignificant, but totally curable. There is nothing to lose and everything to gain. Give your fabulous brain every opportunity to heal you.

You already have the best answer in you, but keep in mind that new solutions are continually becoming available – never give up the search. Consider the emergence of neuroplasticity; the discovery that the brain can change itself. This impressive discovery reignited the hopes of millions of people affected by cerebral palsy, learning disabilities, dyslexia, schizophrenia and many other neurological issues; the list goes on. One of the best aspects is that many of the radical improvements are achieved through the mind, eliminating the need for operations or medication.

Additionally, neuroplasticity has demonstrated our ability to turn genes on and off through our thinking. Continue reading “Are You Ready to Be Well? Get Breakthrough Healing with Alternative Health Medicine”