Kerry says, “Janet believes that if you truly understand how life works, there’s no limit to what you can accomplish and to how much you can help others.
Instead of doing what others want and expect from you, it’s far better to start living for yourself and to start creating the life that you want and deserve. There’s really no other way to be happy.”
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“I read at least 1 or more chapters in the morning before I get up and before going to sleep. It has inspired me so much to follow my dreams and let things go.
I just wanted to let you know how grateful I am to you for the difference you have made in my life already. I am so excited about my new adventure thanks to you.”
~~ Kylie Evans, Mt Tamborine, QLD
“I felt it touched upon many aspects of life, and didn’t try to preach to me or to provide me with a strict regimen of instruction for bettering myself. It makes you think about self-awareness and I really loved the inspirational quotes that were at the beginning of each chapter.
The book is easy to read, hard to put down at times, in fact.”
It’s true: The best gifts are often free. With the holiday season upon us, I wanted to share with you one of the most moving passages I’ve ever read.
It reappeared in front of me recently as a wonderful surprise when I discovered an inspiring letter from days gone by.
The letter had been sent to me by a team member while I was a manager in the corporate world. We’ll call him Peter. Peter had just completed his contract and was thanking me for the support I’d given him during a rough period of time in the team.
While I’m not including here what Peter wrote, I am including this beautiful passage he attached to the end of his letter:
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.”
This is an excerpt from the book Return to Love – A Reflection on the Principles of a Course in Miracles by Marianne Williamson. Nelson Mandela also delivered these words in a speech.
How does that make you feel?
I treasure such letters, most of us do. Someone took time out of their day to express appreciation. Most people don’t do that.
I’d appreciated and loved this letter and passage 16 years ago. I love it even more today. Why? Life experience has made me even more appreciative. While I’ve always loved and cared for people, having children created more of a passion.
There is more to this passage than at first glance; this is a deep message.
It’s both inspiring and a challenge at the same time.
Are you playing small?
I believe Peter wanted in turn, to inspire me. When I read these words now, I realize how prophetic they are.
I’d grappled with playing small for many years, yet didn’t know that’s what I was doing. You may discover that too.
It was no coincidence finding this letter and passage again because I feel that every day I comprehend more fully THE FUTILITY OF PLAYING SMALL.
As it turns out, the core message of my book is to:
“Let your OWN light shine…
Become a LIGHT TO THE WORLD,
leading the way for others to do the same…”
They are on the back of my book.
Inspiration is a gift
If the words in that passage fill you with dreams and possibility, then do these beautiful words justice and allow them to move in your life.
My suggestion is print them and read them aloud for maximum effect. Perhaps share this at dinner to inspire your family and friends especially as they prepare for their new year ahead. Inspiration is an eternal gift.
Share it with at least one friend or colleague. Allow the words to resonate through your being. They are truly moving.
Expressing appreciation is also a beautiful gift
I’m sharing this story for another reason.
When you take the time to thank someone it means so much. You both reap huge rewards.
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By expressing gratitude you move into even more of the fabulous and your letter of appreciation will in turn inspire – more than you’ll ever know.
If you’re ever moved to send someone a thank you letter, don’t second-guess it or ponder it.
The best way to achieve that is to keep growing, evolving.
Enter relationships! They are one of the main ways we grow. Especially of course when they’re challenging us.
The point being:
A challenging relationship is not a “problem”, it can be AN ASSET.
Have a brilliant time at your family gatherings this year by taking the higher road. Take those disputes and use them to release hidden issues (which dictate your life!) Releasing them opens you to exciting new opportunities.
These 7 steps wrap-up parts 1 & 2, which built the understanding behind disputes. Now you have what you need to use a dispute as a valuable opportunity to transform your life. If you’re someone who wants to become greater follow the 7 steps and look back on the issue as a blessing.
So now, you have the power to create what you want. It’s your choice. You can either have:
a heavy life filled with revenge & justice
OR
a free & light-hearted life with anything you want
It may require humility but I promise you, you’ll always win.
(NOTE: This does not involve working this out with the other person – this is ALL ABOUT YOU – as usual : -)
Use this article for any disagreement or where you’re not getting along.
“To truly laugh, you must be able to take your pain and play with it.” ~~ Charlie Chaplin
Whether you do anything about this or not depends on how much this is hurting you.
Enough pain and you’ll act.
This is part 3 of a 3-part series: Coming Through Family Disputes Peacefully and More Empowered.
Steps 1 – 4 may be a challenge. Do them so you can CELEBRATE in steps 5 – 7!
1. KNOWLEDGE FREES
1. Create the intention to learn about yourself.
The natural state of your Spirit is to learn, to discover – especially about YOU!
Try to put revenge, anger, disappointment aside for these 7 steps. If it seems impossible to learn anything, try saying one of the following sentences to at least get you onto the page:
“Is there any way I could be open to the possibility there is something important to learn about myself – even though I’m still angry about what happened?”
“I choose to learn something profound about me today.”
“What if being open to learning about my role in this, could really change my life?”
“Is there a chance my life could become more meaningful by understanding the message in this situation?”
Another idea: Pretend you’re observing someone else with this issue – learn by watching.
“Growth begins when we start to accept our own weakness.”
~~ Jean Vanier (Canadian Catholic philosopher Founder of L’Arche – group homes for people with developmental disabilities b. 1928)
2. LOVE YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE
2. Take a stance of ‘no blame’.
No right and wrong. Not you, not them – even if it’s just for this exercise.
You may not want to let the other person off the hook because they hurt you, but once you understand the reason for disputes your fear disappears and nothing can hurt you.
Because…
…when you know you create every part of your life, how can anyone hurt you?
1: Others Control You if You Try to Prove Them Wrong
2: Others Control You if You Blame Them for What Happened
In fact once you know this, learning more about you becomes more important and exciting than seeking revenge and justice.
3. GAIN PEARLS OF WISDOM
3. Create and contemplate the following questions.
Do this key step to get valuable insights out-of-the blue.
Idea: Print this page, so you can have these questions with you when you have time such as in traffic, on a train, bus or cooking etc. Make it easy for you to take action.
These give you the message about using this dispute to grow. It may not be obvious how these questions help, but do it and you’ll see.
“What bugs me about this person?”
“Could this be my message?”
“How does this person make me feel?”
“What does that message tell me about myself?”
“What message is this person giving me?”
“How are they treating me?”
“Is it possible their treatment of me is how I expect to be treated?”
“Is it possible their treatment of me is how I treat others?”
“If I was open to learning about myself today, what would that learning be?”
“How can I evolve from this experience: how can I grow?”
“We do not see things as they are, but as we are ourselves.”
~~ Henry M. Tomlinson (British writer and journalist 1873 – 1958)
4. USE THE OPPORTUNITY TO TRANSFORM
4. Use those answers to discover any inadequacies in you.
It’s in your nature to change… to transform.
When someone annoys us it’s usually highlighting an inadequacy. It means it’s time to MOVE ON from the inadequacy.
Did the questions in point#3 uncover feelings of:
inferiority
bitterness
guilt
anxiety
self-pity
jealousy
disappointment in yourself
or
arrogance
stubbornness
or they made you feel
afraid, fearful – maybe you feel you need to toe the line & keep others happy to avoid being abandoned or excluded.
This is why that insensitive – annoying – hurtful or frightening person can be an ASSET.
This is not that easy – we’re often in denial about our feelings because you may see yourself as weak. But that’s not true. It takes strength to see ourselves for who we are. No-one is perfect and if you hide the issue, it’s still there.
Here’s a good question:
“Is it worth hiding these issues and holding yourself back for all eternity?”
“The person with insight enough to admit his limitations comes nearest to perfection.”
~~ Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (German writer, artist & politician 1749 – 1832)
Let’s take one of the questions from above as an example:
“Is it possible their treatment of me is how I expect to be treated?”
Perhaps you decided DISRESPECT is the issue. What could that possibly mean for you?
Contemplate, drill down further with more questions and you may come up with a NEED FOR APPROVAL. Keep drilling down every time you discover something – what is behind the issue. Then, contemplate ways you can start giving yourself whatever you’re lacking e.g. respect and approval. Remember you can only give yourself what you need – others cannot do it for you. Once you give it to yourself, you’ll see it reflected in your relationship with others. Step 6 continues this process.
“A man who knows he is a fool, is not a great fool.”
~~ Zhuangzi (Influential Chinese philosopher who lived around 4th century BCE)
Remember the ripple effects and rewards from recognizing and changing just one inadequacy or limitation can be phenomenal.
You can get more help from Chapter 3 – Whatever You Think is True – which comes as a part of the FREE 3 chapter download of the book. It will help you understand:
where your thoughts come from
why anything you want is already there for you
how to consciously choose your thoughts
(see the end of this article for what you get in the free download)
5. LET’S LIBERATE YOU!
5. Acknowledge what you’ve discovered – this is fabulous!
Let’s liberate you.
Really own it. By taking responsibility for who you are, you will naturally start to heal and move into the wonderful.
“Champions take responsibility. When the ball is coming over the net, you can be sure I want the ball.”
~~ Billie Jean King (American tennis player – Won 12 Grand Slam singles tennis titles b. 1943)
6. NOW FOR SOME FUN! Decide what you want.
6. CHOOSE WHAT YOU WANT
How do you want to be treated?
Use this information to move in a new direction. You have infinite potentials. Just say the word. Often we “wish” but never really state with intention what we want.
Choose powerful thoughts to describe how you want to be treated. Go for anything you want such as respect, happiness, confidence or a relationship, a material item etc. For example:
“I feel safe, confident and secure in myself.”
“I have fulfilling, loving relationships.”
“I know how to treat myself with respect.”
“I now get treated with respect.”
“I’m grateful I love myself enough not to need anyone’s approval.”
“I love myself the way I am.”
“I see the happy caring side of (insert their name)”.
As you see these thoughts in your mind, you are creating them in reality.
Place these on cards next to your bed. Say them aloud at night and as you awake. Leave copies around your car, home and workplace, and say them aloud when you see them.
7. MOVE INTO A NEW WORLD
7. Intend to see a change.
If you don’t, you’ll be expecting this person to keep treating you badly – and they will. You’ll be throwing the issue forward into your future… and voilà unfortunately you’ll move into it. That’s why it happens again and again.
It’s a cycle. Break the cycle.
Your thoughts create the life you experience.
Change your thoughts to get what you want.
“If you do not conquer self, you will be conquered by self.”
~~ Napoleon Hill (American author of several books incl. Think and Grow Rich in 1937 – Hill was one of the earliest producers of personal success literature 1883 – 1970)
Once you get an “aha” moment, you automatically get new choices.
Once you’re taking responsibility and choosing to resolve your issues within, you’ll find a few things happen, such as:
The situation eases. Why? This person’s job as your teacher is accomplished.
The person drops out of your life. Why? Because you’ve risen to a higher vibration, you’re moving into exciting new relationships aligned with the new you.
Bonus Point #8
Congratulate yourself for taking action and now contemplate all your strengths. One of them being:
“It is a sign of strength, not of weakness, to admit that you don’t know all the answers.”
~~ John P. Lougbrane
So Remember…
I wish you many fabulous family gatherings. If you find yourself getting annoyed at someone, ask yourself:
“Do I blame them or blame no-one, and choose the higher road to wisdom?”
Hopefully you decide to be at peace with this person, see them as an asset and use the lesson to help you grow into a beautiful transformed butterfly.
When you’re ready to learn more, order a copy of How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That! (on Amazon or on this site – see buttons on the left) and…
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The book is easy to read, hard to put down at times, in fact. Janet is a believer in loving who you are and not trying to squeeze yourself into a box or change yourself to fit someone else’s mold or idea. If you can love yourself as you are, the rest will follow.
The book is perfect not just for one type of person either, no matter who you are, where you are in life, there is something for everyone and each person will take something important away after reading it.”
“An excellent book which can and will help you change your life for the better. The emphasis of the exercises and guidance in the book is all about your ‘self ‘ – How you see yourself, what pre-determined ideas and beliefs you have and how others react to your behaviour and attitude.
The challenges and demands which we face in our lives are cleverly broken down into chapters and for each demand/challenge the author gives you an alternative thought process to help you cope. With practice this could lead to that demand/challenge becoming less of an impact on your life and therefore eliminating that problem and as each problem is eradicated your life is enriched.”
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It empowers you to live life on your own terms and reach your true potential. It solves the human mystery and uses science to prove why you really can get anything you want.
You learn why an extraordinary person is not someone else, it’s YOU!
A huge part of disputes is how much you unwittingly let others control you.
You can take back control by doing one thing instead; something we’ll get to in a minute. And you’ll find one of the essentials to a happy life also pops up again. Do these and life kicks along nicely.
But first it’s important to know what you may inadvertently be doing now, to let others control you.
What I tell you today is not widely known, and if known is not applied – at least I don’t see many people applying it. The good news is once the light is turned on, it stays on and you are forever more empowered.
Our aim today is to put you in charge of every situation, so you not only use disputes as an asset, but also move on from them. We want to give you freedom and have all your power under your control.
You become a magnetic personality others love to be around!
This is part 2 of a 3-part series:
Coming Through Family Disputes Peacefully and More Empowered.
Get more clarity from today’s article by first reading part 1 above.
Part 1 discussed the following:
6 Empowering points about disputes
Why disputes can be used as an asset
Who the other person really is
How to use the dispute to become happier
To Start Today, Ask Yourself These Four Questions:
“Do I try to prove others wrong?”
“Do I blame others for my circumstance?”
“Do I depend on others behaving a certain way, so I can be happy?”
“Do I try to change other people?”
It may surprise you, but if you answer YES to any of these, YOU ARE letting other people control you.
3 Things You Do to Let Others Control You & How to STOP That
1. Others Control You If You Try to Prove Them Wrong
Proving others wrong is a powerless tactic. It feels good, but gives the other person your power; that’s not our aim.
If you want a happy life, the best thing (not necessarily the easiest!) is leave the other person out of it.
“Everything we hear is an opinion, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.” ~~ Marcus Aurelius
(Roman Emperor CE 161 – 180, considered one of the most important Stoic philosophers)
What you’ll notice about those four questions above – they all start with “Do I”.
That’s because the dispute is all about you. That’s a great thing : -) and I’ll tell you why.
Things don’t just happen to you. (again a good thing)
If you’ve read Just Like That! you’ll already know this and why, but a reminder never hurts.
You create everything that happens to you – once you know that, life becomes easier. For example:
Your health: You create your vibrant health or illness and pain
Your relationships: You create fun in your relationships or disappointment
Your finances: You create doing what you enjoy or a struggle
Your career: You create an enjoyable job or a hard, unfulfilling slog
You even create your disputes.
You continue to create everything every day.
Do you realize how powerful and wonderful that is? It means you can choose what you create in future.
Choice = power. Choose to be in control of your life = then you are. Choose to be a victim = then you are.
So, why does trying to prove the other person wrong give them your power?
By saying they caused an issue in your life, you’re choosing to be powerless and give them the power to influence your life.
Remember, you can choose to feel powerless – and of course then you are. Your thought decides your life. You have free will to give that power away and be a victim to others.
BUT. Even though you’ve handed them your power, you’re still creatingeverything that happens in your life. It’s just that you’re creating situations where you are powerless.
Today our goal is to return your power to you – through knowledge.
A powerful strategy is to take responsibility for the dispute. Taking responsibility means you accept you created the dispute.
“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.” ~~ Jim Rohn
When you do, you instantly move into a PROACTIVE ROLE in your life…
… rather than being reactive and dependent on others. You are taking control and choosing your future.
Quantum physics proves what you think creates what you have in your life.
And if you create your life, it’s absolute. It doesn’t only apply to some things and not others, it’s everything.
This may seem impossible right now, but knowledge points the way – makes it fun in fact. This knowledge is already available to you, but it is your job to find, read and apply it. Do that and your life becomes *magical*.
How you can take control today: Learn more about taking responsibility for disputes – for everything. Learn how to do that and apply it. Read this:
Because blame feels deliciously sweet, you actually feel “good” for a moment. This is due to a chemical rush, again like a drug. You feel absolved of the situation and it’s a chance to complain and have others feel sorry for you.
“When you blame others, you give up your power to change.” ~~ Dr. Robert Anthony
Blaming others means you let them control you.
Why?
Think about it – when you blame it’s because the person angered or disappointed you – in other words made you angry or sad. This also means they decide whether you feel happy or sad. You’re at their mercy.
If they’re nice to you, you’re happy. If they’re nasty you have a bad day.
Personally I’d rather choose happiness – on my terms, regardless of those around me.
I’ll put it bluntly:
If you truly are powerful enough to create all aspects of your life (you are)…
… how can you blame someone else for your situation or how you feel?
When you’re locked up in a cycle of blame, it is almost impossible for you to focus on and experience joy – you are effectively in a self-created prison. When you focus on retaliation or revenge, retaliation becomes your life so you create more of it. Life becomes harder as even more people retaliate upon you.
You created this and you can change this.
In a bizarre way, sadness and self-pity are also addictive emotions that feel “good”. But the good feeling quickly disappears, and you’re soon hunting for another hit.
It’s a downward spiral. Blaming others keeps you going south. At some point you’ll realize the truth and become desperate enough to stop the cycle and change direction. Today perhaps? : -)
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you.” ~~ Wayne Dyer
On the other side of this are fun, laughter and getting along with everyone – on your own terms.
That can be you when you say, “YES, I want that”.
The lesson is: blame no-one, not even you. Let the situation merely be a learning opportunity for you: not good and not bad.
How does that work?
Often we’re unaware of our thoughts. If your life is the result of what you think, it means you can use every situation to learn how you’re thinking, and therefore change your thoughts to create what you want.
More help coming your way: Part 3 – 7 Easy Ways to Use the Dispute to Get What You Want – posted soon, helps you discover the meaning behind disputes and how they can help you find real happiness.
How you can take control today: Take responsibility to learn more about how life works, how you’re creating your life, why you can never blame others. Then start using that knowledge to take control and get what you want. Start with this:
You can get Chapter 3 WHATEVER YOU THINK IS TRUE from my book – part of the 3 chapter FREE download – it’s a powerful chapter about how thought works, plus it has an easy exercise to help you: HOW TO CONSCIOUSLY CHOOSE THOUGHTS.
3. Others Control You If You Depend on Them Behaving a Certain Way
“Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.” ~~ Oscar Wilde
Even if the other person is attacking you, dig a little deeper and you’ll find you want them to change and behave a certain way.
Remember, controlling someone or forcing them to do what you want is equal to slavery, something we abhor. (yet we still do this but don’t see it that way)
But here’s the catch. By trying to control someone, you become the one controlled.
Why you help yourself AND others
when you ditch obligation!
If you’re frustrated or bored, you’re probably doing obligation and it means you have chosen to put other people’s lives ahead of your own, and it’s not admirable.
Change this or kiss goodbye to your goals and dreams because your focus is on helping other people achieve their dreams. When that happens we rarely get around to doing what is important to us.
“Once you say you’re going to settle for second, that’s what happens to you.”
John F. Kennedy
Love Who You Are, Do What You Love
You are here to experience life on Earth: your life. Your first step is to love yourself. When you love you, then you have what you need to love others.
Anything else is an unfulfilled, uphill battle. Become a light to the world and lead the way for others to do the same. You’re not perfect, we know that. No-one is – we are all continuing to evolve. Approve of everything you think, say and do.
You are here to fulfill your goals and dreams, to create new adventures, to explore life.
Once you’re on the right path for you, once you’re filled up… then reach out to others.
You can’t live someone else’s life for them. You are here to achieve as much happiness as you can and always remember you are entitled to get what you want.
The more you love yourself the more you get what you want. Be outrageous and live your life to the full.
Key Points
Are you trapped into constantly having to please other people?
Are you scared to say no?
Why putting yourself second causes you distress.
How to know if you are doing obligation.
How to break with tradition and follow the path that makes you happy.
How you’ll be supported when you do what makes you happy.
Yes, You Can Say, ‘No’
We robotically follow the unwritten rules of society. Society, religions and culture, over many generations have decided ‘acceptable’ behavior for you. We seldom stop and say, ‘What if I don’t want to do this?’
Yes, you can say, ‘No.’
Obligation is subtle. Sometimes we overlook our unwillingness to comply because it is so deeply buried and masked.
Observe how life plays out around you, including your job – is it also an obligation? Study other people… this is happening to most of us.
We spend most of our day satisfying other people. If you do this it damages your health and happiness.
Before you help someone, allow yourself to stand back and consider what you’re consenting to. Do it for the right reasons.
If you don’t want to help there is a good reason, perhaps not clear to you. There is also usually an alternative.
If there is no hidden agenda or expectation in your offer to help, go for it.
Why Do You Do Obligation?
Lurking behind obligation is our need for acceptance from others. If our behavior is different or at odds with our culture, we’re noticed and are potentially a target for disapproval. We police each other to behave ‘appropriately’.
For most of us, the love we receive from others is conditional – directly dependent on how we behave. We all know this subconsciously, so we ‘behave’. We love the fuzziness of approval.
We have an innate knowingness that to experience condemnation by our peers would feel like being banished into the wilderness, where it seems our very survival is threatened.
How to Know If You Are Doing Obligation
When there is no sense of fun and excitement in your activities. Ideally, you should wake up enthusiastic about the day ahead. Question whether you have choice in what you do.
Crabby, Bitter vs Happy, Fulfilled…Which One Do You Want?
Who do you think is a greater asset to you and the world? The crabby, bitter personality who is living a lie or the sunshiny one who loves their life?
Your only obligation should be to yourself! When you are happy and fulfilled, you are fun to be around.
WHEN YOUR CHALICE IS FULL,
YOU ARE A BLESSING TO OTHERS.
Follow Your Dreams and Feel Fabulous
Once you have the courage to break with the traditions of society, to do what makes you happy, you will discover that a new sense of power and confidence washes over you.
You are loving you – perhaps for the first time, and people and circumstances magically appear and fall into place.
The People Who Matter Will Love You and Be Inspired
Fitting into other people’s expectations may still be tempting because it is a habit but gradually the need diminishes.
The people who matter in your life will accept the new you, and you will become an inspiration for them to change their lives.
Other people may drift away and that is to be expected.
New people will arrive, people who will take you onward with your journey, to even greater happiness.
Being Human is Beautiful
A beautiful aspect of being human is that we love to help others, and you will always do so – but on your own terms.
Ensure there is balance and choice in what you do; make sure you do what you want to do.
Do you love yourself the way you are? Learn how to value yourself and live life on your own terms.
The book uses the forgotten truth of ancient wisdom to lift you out of restrictive current beliefs and provide an in-depth step-by-step approach to aligning your thoughts with what you want. It also offers exercises that help integrate the knowledge into your life.
What Readers and Critics are Saying about How to Get Anything You Want – Just Like That!
Just want to thank you for a wonderful book. My mother purchased it for me for Christmas and I have loved every word written.
I am about to read it again to absorb more of the wonderful lessons.
My journey has become more enlightened thanks to your book and I am now living in the moment, letting go old baggage that was hanging on with bad energy.
Very grateful to have this book enter my life. Let the magic begin!“
~~ D. Smith, Working mother of 4, Queensland Australia
“Just Like That!” covers so many topics that it would be too numerous to mentionall of my “Ah ha” moments. But I can say that there were many that helped me to better understand my behaviors and thought patterns, and those of others.
In looking at how and why other people might act like they do, it helped me to feel more compassion towards them. I also learned a lot about not getting sucked in to other people’s issues or letting them control me with their negativity or letting myself get sucked into helping them when it might not be in my best interest or theirs.”
This is Janet Poole and I believe in freedom and living our true potential.
I believe in finding better ways to live a better life.
I believe in being someone you can count on for support all the way into achieving your goal.
I have searched the world to find the best ways to grow, get permanent change and achieve your wildest dreams — I have found it in the program Thinking Into Results.
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