Think For Yourself

7 Unwanted Things When You’re NOT LIVING YOUR WHY

Published on June 23, 2015February 16, 2016 by Janet

I believe in exercising our FREE WILL.

We all have free will, yet most of us just toss this liberty aside because remember…

… having FREE WILL means you can choose NOT to have it.

“You enter the forest at the darkest point,
where there is no path.
Where there is a way or path,
it is someone else’s path.
You are not on your own path.
If you follow someone else’s way,
you are not going to realize your potential.”
~~ Joseph Campbell

If your life is about being what you think others want you to be and HOPING you’ll live up to their expectations, you’ll get:

1. Confusion
2. Self-doubt
3. Feeling lost
4. Sickness
5. Unhappiness
6. Misery
7. Feeling old

When put ourselves last we feel empty.

It’s not easy to decide to live for yourself.

We’ve spent most of our life trying to fit in and become what we’re not, but YOU WILL FEEL EUPHORIC when you dedicate your life to knowing who you are and living it.

Know thyself.

What you can do today is start at least opening to the idea of accepting yourself the way you are and doing what’s right for you.

Start expressing what matters to you; your true beliefs.

Your beliefs are going to be different to those of others and that’s what we want.

Expect your beliefs to grow and differ even more as you start expressing and living for the REAL YOU.

You’ll soon realise that being yourself is in fact letting go of everything you thought you “had to” be.

Each day you’ll become happier and lighter.

When you express what you believe and embrace your free will, you’ll get:

1. Loving relationships
2. A healthy body
3. Ideal customers who love you
4. Abundance
5. Vital energy
6. Certainty and direction
7. Confidence
8. Passion
9. Laughter
10. Fun
11. Optimism
12. Adventure
13. __(anything you want)____

How much of that do you have now?

Play all out being YOU.

Don’t waste another day living someone else’s life.

Change Your Reason for Working

Published on June 21, 2015February 14, 2016 by Janet

WHY-postcard-front-B Wouldn’t it be nice if you could earn big money doing what you love!

Most people doubt that possibility but that’s only one side of the issue.

Many clients tell me they have NO IDEA WHAT they love to do.

Let’s tackle both sides of this issue because something called creativity is the way forward for both.

Did you know…

– You are a born creator.
– You are a powerful creator.
– A happy person is a person being creative.

Allow me to clarify.

If you’re being creative, you’ll most likely be doing something you love and remember this, you don’t have to be an artist, writer or composer to be creative.

Being “creative” is doing anything you’ve never done before; moving into new experiences.
You could also call it moving forward, growing or evolving.
Look at nature.

What happens when nature is not growing or evolving?

If a tree is not growing, it’s dying.

Nature is always growing and evolving, and we ought to be too.

If you feel you HAVE to do your job, see that as red flag because it’s probably doing you more harm than good.

When you’re doing what you HAVE to do, you’re going uphill and moving AWAY from what you want.

What’s a good way to tell if you’re being creative and evolving?

You know you’re on track if you’re getting new experiences, doing something new for you and it feels like fun. Simple!

When we give ourselves permission to do something that feels like fun IT FEELS GOOD.

If that’s the case then no matter how silly it seems, DO IT.

I’ve found that…

all those intangible things like family, friends, health, fun and adventure are just as important, if not more important

… than income.

They are things money can’t buy.

Be sure to thoroughly enjoy them on your journey.

John Lennon said,
“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans”.

Don’t spend most of your life hating what you do.

Don’t sacrifice the fullness of your life and your happiness for a pay check.

3 Things You Can Do Today

Step 1: Contemplate something fun you’d like to do.

Make a decision. You can’t get to a destination if you don’t know where you’re going.
If something doesn’t feel like fun – DO NOT do it.
(note: you may feel a little nervous and if so that’s a good sign! There is a difference : )

Step 2: Imagine you could start tomorrow – what’s something you
can do today to get going?

e.g. Would you need to study? Can you buy a book on the subject?
Could you start part-time?
Perhaps you could research information on the Internet.
Perhaps a start would be a simple as reorganising your office or clearing clutter!
Any small step will move you forward.

You’ll start giving yourself permission to do the thing you want to do and you’ll start moving into people and circumstances that help you.

Step 3: What to do if you still don’t know what to do.

I have a revolutionary new tool to help you discover what you love and it’s called your WHY.

When you know your WHY, life makes sense.

When you know your WHY, you have clarity, confidence and DIRECTION.
When you know your WHY, you live with passion.

Once you’re living with passion and doing what you love, money comes as a side-effect.

If you’d like to find out what matters to you, what you’re compulsive about and what you believe, let me know.

Discover your WHY.

Don’t waste another day, month or year wondering!

You’re meant to be happy and DO WHAT YOU LOVE.

7 Things Happen When You Don’t Know Your WHY

Published on May 10, 2015February 14, 2016 by Janet

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“Most people die in their early 20’s.
We simply wait until they reach their 80’s to bury them.”
~~ Jim Rohn

“WHY” is one of our first and most favourite words and yet sadly most of us go from birth to death without discovering the answer.

I believe we ought to live a life that matters and I’ve always believed there’s a fun, heartfelt way of finding out how to do that.

NOT knowing your WHY usually leads to 7 unwanted things:

1. You’re CONFUSED & FOGGY
2. You’re uncertain, doubtful & fearful
3. You’re not passionate & in the wrong career
4. You’re INAUTHENTIC & NOT TRUSTED
5. You’re playing small
6. You’re MISSING OUT on what matters to you
7. You have CONFLICT in your relationships

Most people lack passion because they don’t know WHY they do what they do and therefore can’t confidently decide what they want in life, choose the ideal career or relationship.

Most people have no idea WHAT THEY BELIEVE.
What do YOU believe?

The ability for you to 100% KNOW your WHY and be certain of it is a recent revolutionary development towards making the world a better place.

The WHY I’m talking about IS WAY DEEPER than why you want to start a workout program or lose weight. This WHY is about WHAT YOU BELIEVE and WHAT YOU STAND FOR.

It’s what really matters to you.

KNOWING YOUR WHY leads to 7 FABULOUS things:

1. You SEE CLEARLY
2. You become INSPIRED; you inspire others
3. You live with PASSION and purpose
4. You’re AUTHENTIC, unique & special
5. You enjoy close, TRUSTED and loyal relationships
6. You PLAY ALL OUT and do what you love to do
7. You start generating HIGHER INCOME

I’ve always believed that by just being yourself you can create anything you want.

This is a new tool and it’s both serious and light-hearted.

SERIOUS because your life will take on a whole new deeper meaning.
LIGHT-HEARTED because the process to find your WHY is fun and easy.

After years of research we’ve discovered there are 9 WHYs.
Which one is yours?

Message me if you want to know more

A person who knows their WHY gets up in the morning excited; they live with passion.

I believe the best way to succeed is not by changing you… it’s by CELEBRATING WHO YOU ARE!

That’s WHY I do the work I do!

How Long Have You Been Getting Ready?

Published on May 7, 2015February 14, 2016 by Janet

Is there something you want to BE, DO, HAVE or CREATE?

Is there something you’d like to BUY or SELL?

Are you still getting ready?

Did you know that no matter how much you prepare, you can only fine-tune the details once you START!

Most people get STUCK in the preparation phase and although preparing is part of the fun,
there comes a time when we know we’re ready but we continue to “get ready”.

“You don’t have to be great to start,
but you have to start to be great.”
~~Zig Ziglar

Most of us would love to get everything “right” the first time but that’s not how life works.

If you want to get everything exactly “right”, you’ll be preparing forever.
And who decides that something is “right”?
It’s an adventure, an experience… that’s all.

Someone once said to me, “It all comes down to one moment”.

At some stage we have to make the leap of faith because for most of us (me included) it’s always going to feel uncomfortable.

Movement, or action, is crucial so I’d love you to have the courage to take that leap.

Until you take that leap, important tasks remain hidden; you’ll never move forward because you’ll never reveal those hidden tasks!

It’s an awesome feeling to be in the flow and address things as they make themselves known.

Yes we’re scared we’re going to feel out of control or exposed and vulnerable, but in fact that doesn’t happen.

Instead you feel your soul singing because you’re moving forward and participating in life the way it was intended.

Even in the midst of discomfort, there’s something that feels very right when you’re doing it.

I urge you to dive into being, doing and having what you want.

Just do it…
… that first step will start your path to having everything you want!

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How to Get Anything You Want By Being Authentically YOU

Published on April 18, 2015February 14, 2016 by Janet

Authentic Wouldn’t it be a relief if you could WIN BIG just by being YOURSELF?

Wouldn’t it be a relief to never again COMPETE for anything you want?

The beautiful truth is that’s the world you’re living in right now, if you so choose.

I’ve always believed there’s an easy, HEARTFELT way of creating a wildly successful life and business.

Most people are fed up with the manipulation in our world; they’re looking for authenticity.

What does authenticity mean?

It means you’re transparent, genuinely you, no hidden agendas.
You’re not trying to be someone you’re not.
You’re proudly YOU.

Why does authenticity matter?

When you’re being authentic you’re naturally communicating that to others through a part of their brain that makes decisions… the FEELING part of their brain.

People very quickly sense authenticity.
Most of us applaud, love, appreciate authenticity in others but aren’t yet comfortable being our own authentic self.

It’s a worthy mission because when you can be yourself and authentically live what you believe, you’ll be highly sought after on a personal and professional basis.

1. Think about most marketing and advertising today.

It’s hoping to appeal to customers through price, quality, service, features and benefits.
It’s usually manipulative.

2. Think about a person going for a job interview.

They’re hoping to impress by talking about their qualifications, skills and experience.

3. Think about someone going on a first date.

They’re hoping they say the right things to prove their value.

The common problem with those?

They’re strategic, they’re not genuine… not AUTHENTIC.

How do you become NATURALLY authentic?

People sense your authenticity when you connect from WHY you do what you do, what you stand for and what you BELIEVE in.

When the person believes what you believe, it will FEEL RIGHT for them, they’ll feel comfortable with you, they’ll sense a bond and they’ll feel safe.

But how do you KNOW WHY you do what you do?

Don’t worry, most people have no idea WHY they do what they do or what they believe in, so fortunately there’s a new revolutionary and easy way to find out.

When you KNOW YOUR WHY you will be clear on:

a. WHY you do what you do
b. What you believe
c. What you stand for

Here’s what happens when you KNOW YOUR WHY and EXPRESS what you BELIEVE:

1. Your business:

When you START WITH WHY in your marketing messages, customers who believe what you believe will find you, feel a connection with you and become raving loyal fans.

2. Your job interview:

When you start with what you believe, you’ll immediately differentiate yourself from others. You’re being you, you’re unique and that’s inspiring for those in the interview.

3. Your first date:

When you start with what you believe and WHY you do what you do, you have more chance of getting that second date. Again, you’re merely being you.

How refreshing.

get-your-why-on You are the way you are for a reason.
You’re unique, you’re different, there’s no-one else like you.
Let’s celebrate that.

This means when you allow the full expression of your true self, you’ll attract people who value what you value and believe what you believe.

When you KNOW YOUR WHY your world begins to make more sense, you gain instant clarity, it’s like being reintroduced to yourself.

It’s a relief.

There are 9 WHYs.

Ask me for more information on how to discover which WHY is yours.

Learn how to express your WHY in your business and attract raving, loyal customers.

Don’t be a copy of someone else.

Be authentically you!

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Category: Think For Yourself

7 Unwanted Things When You’re NOT LIVING YOUR WHY

If your life is about being what you think others want you to be and HOPING you’ll live up to their expectations, you’ll get:

When you express what you believe and embrace your free will, you’ll get:

Related Reading:

Change Your Reason for Working

John Lennon said,
“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans”.

3 Things You Can Do Today

Step 1: Contemplate something fun you’d like to do.

Step 2: Imagine you could start tomorrow – what’s something you
can do today to get going?

Step 3: What to do if you still don’t know what to do.

When you know your WHY, life makes sense.

Related Reading:

7 Things Happen When You Don’t Know Your WHY

NOT knowing your WHY usually leads to 7 unwanted things:

KNOWING YOUR WHY leads to 7 FABULOUS things:

Related Reading:

How Long Have You Been Getting Ready?

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